By Adesua Ewoigbokhan
Monogamous sex is when you have only one sex partner and remains faithful to each other. Sexual interaction is exclusive within the partnership.
Traditionally, monogamy involves choosing a single mate for a period of a life time. This act of keeping only one sex partner, limits risk of contracting Sexually Transmitted diseases.
Here are Some reasons why monogamous sex remains the best.
Settling for a monogamous act, makes life simple, because making love with your spouse only, pretty much eliminates the possibilities of Venereal diseases. It will shock you to know how many people don’t practice safe sex. Sticking to one partner can be a kind of incentive to keeping your sexual life alive.
Couples are more comfortable about being frank with one another. Once you have been together for a long time, it becomes easier to express yourself about your likes and dislikes in bed, without, stressing about hurting the other person’s feeling. This is because, there is already a comfort zone that you both share. As a result, you communicate without any form of fear as you can be completely inhibition free with him. It’s a beautiful thing when both of you choose honesty.
In this type of relationship, you have more time for yourself. You can have fun with your spouse anytime of the day, without worrying about your phone blowing with sexy text messages from an outsider. When you are in a single union, it means you can count on one another when going through terrible day. This is the biggest part of being monogamous which you wouldn’t want to exchange for anything.
It might sound unreal, the truth is that monogamy can be beneficial to couples in more than one way, when you consider the following advantages ;
Monogamous sex has a lot of emotional benefits. Sex with one’s committed spouse, bring the best qualities of your relationship into your bedroom. Sharing a sense of trust and honesty in your daily living, this will amount to the same personal intimacy that will be carried over into your love life.
It can have a tremendously positive impact on sex itself.
There is a physiological benefit to indulging in monogamous love making. When in a trusting affair like marriage, it is a lot easier to take the leap and start having unprotected sex. There is the added advantage of less sexual anxiety during the act, as you don’t have to stress about your spouse past sexual life. You already know his or her history. So you just get to enjoy the act, the more.
Monogamous sex can be regular and in a simple way. However, over time, love making between couples can get too familiar and things can get stale a bit. Nevertheless, in the over all, you will be copulating with someone who knows your back and front. There is nothing like learning curve, no ramp-up period. When you make the first move, your partner is aware of which buttons to push which is cool.
This kind of arrangement supports sexual diversity; experimenting and exploring your sexual boundaries can be a dreadful experience but with a committed spouse, you can venture into the unknown without feeling intimidated.
Monogamous sex fosters uprightness. Expressing your wants and desires to your spouse is not always easy, but if you are in a monogamous relationship you won’t hesitate to talk. As there is enough trust between the two of you that makes you comfortable to express yourself sexually.
Monogamous relationship can equally be as adventurous as non-monogamous sex. It can be a sand box to explore and evolve sexually.This thrive on having regular sex and staying committed to bringing newness into their love making whenever possible.
Monogamous sex can actually be beneficial to you and your partner if you trust and stay honest, while each partner works hard to keep to their sex life curious, fun and fearless. It aids closer emotional and sexual connection without the distraction of an outsider.
It can be passionately fulfilling when you can lustfully connect with your partner. This will play a big part in your equation with him /her. As you can go an extra mile to please one another during the act.