By Patricia Uyeh
Do feel bored in your relationship? Perhaps the butterflies in your tummy are no longer there. Chances are you are feeling bored in your relationship. It isa good time to pause and have a rethink on some questions regarding your relationship like why are you really bored?; What do you intend to do about it? What are the reasons behind you getting bored of your relationship?
Once you understand these, you can prevent reoccurence of boredom in your relationship.
Having said that, find below reasons why you are bored in love:
1. The daily rountine;
When your relationship follows the same daily rountine, you are bound to get bored. It is predictable and can wear the excitement out.It is time to try new things, ideas and spice your relationship up. Plan a vacation, try a new recipe, try new hobbies, games, pursue a business venture together, do some charity works, the list is endless.
2. Emotional affairs:
You might be having an emotional affair with a good friend or even a colleague at work and be unaware. If you find it easier to confide in themand not your partner, you might just end up creating a vacuum. Ensure you open up and communicate with your partner, so you don’t feel disconnected and bored.
Love is also built on special memories. When you create excitement and fond memories with your partner all the time, there is nothing that would make your lovelife dead and boring.
This the lifeblood of any realtionship. Couples should be free to talk about anything and everything from the little things to the big things to the important to the unimportant.
5. Shared goals and passions:
If you have no shared passions and long term goals, you both would get drained and tired of each other. There should be something that is keeping yopu both together and you are also looking forward to accomplish.
6. You ‘lost’ your life:
You should have speial times with yourself asides your relationship. If you give up your life just to spend time with your partner, at some point you would feel the need to get yoye own space and life back because she are lost and need to discover who you really are.
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