Child Rights Activist, Taiwo Akinlami, has admonished parents and caregivers to reinforce the message that love within a family is unconditional and all-encompassing.
The activist in his message in commemoration of Valentine’s Day noted that though Valentine’s Day is universally celebrated as a day of love, often associated with romantic gestures and the exchange of cards, flowers, and chocolates, however, the day is also a perfect opportunity for primary and secondary parents to celebrate the unique bond they share with their precious children. Adding that it should also be used to reaffirm their commitment to providing unwavering support and love to their children, as the love and care given to children today shapes the world of tomorrow.
“Families can create new traditions as families by writing notes of appreciation to each other, having a special family dinner, or volunteering together.
“Let’s use this day to reinforce the message that love within a family is unconditional and all-encompassing. A world filled with compassionate, confident, and caring individuals starts with the love they receive at home. Let’s make a promise to continue guiding them towards a bright and loving future.
Speaking on the motto, “Think the Child, Think Today, Think the Future,” he noted that as caregivers, the love for their precious children is immeasurable and Valentine’s gives the chance to express these deep feelings, not just in words but through our actions.
He said: “Our love is a complex tapestry woven with threads of nurturing, guidance, patience, and boundless affection. Our love is a protective embrace, a soft place to land, a source of strength, and a guiding light. On this Valentine’s Day, we have the chance to express these deep feelings, not just in words but through our actions.
“Care is the essence of parental love. It manifests in the meals we prepare, the bedtime stories we read, and the boo-boos we kiss away. But it also shows in setting boundaries, teaching responsibility, and instilling values. Today, let’s renew our commitment to caring for our precious children’s physical, emotional, and mental well-being.
“Appreciation of our precious children’s uniqueness, achievements, and efforts is equally important. Celebrate their individuality, applaud their efforts, and encourage their dreams. Let them know that they are valued and that their thoughts and feelings matter.
“Attention is the currency of love in a child’s world. In our busy lives, it’s easy to get caught up in the day-to-day tasks,”
He urged parents to seize the opportunity to give their undivided attention to their precious children by playing a game, starting a conversation about their interests, or simply listening to them. Adding these moments of undiluted attention are the building blocks of a secure and loving relationship.