Stress is a natural occurrence in our daily lives especially in this era of covid-19 coupled with the current insecurity climate that’s becoming rampant in the country can crush your anxiety about sex.
Too much of it can have a drastic effect on one’s health, making you tense, exhausted and orgasm-less since stress is capable of creating a huge mental block between you and your grand finale (climaxing). Here are your top styles to picks from when you want to zap stress while also delivering the big O (orgasm), basically the miracle cure.
- Doggy (Man’s Best Friend sex position): Get on all fours, he kneels behind you and enters from behind- sometimes the best way to de-stress is to relinquish control. Your lover is completely in charge, leaving you to do nothing but to sit back and enjoy the ride.
- Spooning sex position: Two of you lie on your sides facing the same direction, bring your knees up slightly while he slides up behind your pelvis and gets in from behind- this is a powerful way of how physical touch can release endorphins to calm your nerves.
- Standing position: Stay close to the wall especially if you guys are not used to this style. Spread your legs slightly while bracing against the wall and bend over at the waist as he gets in from the back- you can walk through the door from work and be in this position in under five minutes. It can serve as quickie, very powerful for instant relief.
- Lotus sex position: Be sure your lovebird gets into a comfortable cross-legged position, because he/her is going to be there for a while. Gently lower yourself down and wrap your legs and arms around them, and then grind away- basically a meditative pose and you can just take a minute to zone out and enjoy the sensation without lifting a finger.
*Coital Alignment Technique: Keep your pelvis slightly below his and lift your legs up so your knees are by your elbows. It may not seem like a big change but gives better stimulation- for orgasms, not complicated and you can even add a bullet vibrator to quicken the process. - Seated Oral: Very simple to indulge in as one of you get to sit on the edge of the bed/chair, while the other kneels on the floor and do the needful by using hand play, oral or sex toys- there’s no shame in asking your significant other to help get your stress off your mind. You can switch it up by focusing on your partner’s pleasure, either way your stress level will melt away.
- The Lusty Leg: Explore stuffs that seem insane to be the antidote when stressed or in a sexual rut. Wear heels and lift your right leg as high as it will go and if your leg doesn’t go that way, then try bending it so he can hook his arm under it. Stand holding onto a table for balance as he slides in while holding onto your leg and butt- make some super loud sex like moaning/shout his name/speak in tongues whatever will get you to a deep primal place and go for it, if you think getting spanked will help so be it.
On a final note: figure what works for you, there is no stress buster than some rollicking sex, get lucky and it will add extra spark to your sex life. If you’re feeling overwhelmed right now, do not deprive yourself, go for it and be happy.