Getting dirty in a space where you’re supposed to get clean is really more complex than any kind of depicted erotic films.
Just in case you are thinking of removing it from your sex bucket list, take a breath and try these styles that will help you enjoy getting wet and wild for safer and hotter intercourse. You will thank me later.
Standing doggy-style- Helps keep both feet firmly planted on the shower floor while you use your hands for extra support: put your palms flat against the shower wall and lean toward it with your knees slightly bent this, gives room for the other person to enter from behind using Mr. P, sex toy or fingers.
Sit and ride- Works well for Mr. P in vagina penetration if you angle yourself just right: your lovebird sit on the floor of the shower or on the shower stool/bench, or the side of the tub, then straddle in any position that allows for a comfortable penetration and hold on to your partner tight while you take a ride.
A leg up position-This is one position that would benefit from the footrest and handle mentioned above. The side of the tub or a shower seat can work too.
Standing position- Face your spouse and bring one leg up to the footrest, bench or tub’s edge; just in case you don’t have any of these things, then have your lover use one hand to hold your leg up for thrusting.
Got my back position- This is similar to the leg up position but in this case, you back your spouse’s own. It works perfectly for vaginal penetration from behind: stand facing the shower wall and rest your foot on the footrest, bench or tub’s edge for support. Have your significant other stand directly behind you while holding your leg up for extra support while he enters.
The chairperson position- Is like a reverse cowgirl: have your lover sit on the shower stool edge of the tub or floor, straddle the lap, facing away from your partner, positioning yourself for vaginal penetration while placing your hands on their knees or against the shower wall for balance.
Here are precautions to observe knowing that shower mating can be precarious:
Be sure to always hold things like the wall, handle or other sturdy surface for that extra support.
Use condoms- Sex in shower may be clean but it can’t stop the spread from STIs.
Mutual consent is key as shower sex is not for everyone unless the both of you are game and are totally into it, if not you’ll need to find another way to spice things up that you’re both comfortable with.
Also, be careful when getting out of the shower as outside the shower can equally be slippery. So, walk softly and never run.
Pleasurable shower sex is possible with some kind of communication, care, and a little know-how. Sex generally does not look the same for everyone and and having it in the shower is hard, no pun intended.
It can feel awkward when wrongly executed especially if posture feels uneasy or difficult. Move away rather than regret anything. You can still have great time together for that extra sexual naughtiness!