Author and lawyer, Reno Omokri has a word for women on how to win a man’s heart.

In a letter written to women on his Instagram page, Reno said to win a man’s heart, you must offer him the type of unconditional love his mother gave him.

According to the 46-year-old, a man cannot marry his mother, but he can’t resist a woman who can love him like her.

Instead of looking for a man to worship the ground they work on, he stated that a woman can get a man eat from the palm of her hand if she pets him the way his mother petted him.

Here is his post:

“Dear women,

“Every man entered this world through a woman. If you want to win a man’s heart, you must offer him the type of unconditional love his mother gave him. He can’t marry his mother. But he can’t resist a woman who can love him like her. Many women are looking for a man to worship the ground they work on. Alas! They are too selfish to know that if they pet a man the way his mother petted him, they will have him eating out of the palm of their hand. Stoop to conquer!”