PILLOW CHATTING (Cont)
Continued from last week…
Although its not healthy to ignore these topics altogether, you can always put a time limit such as, no work talk after 8p.m.
Its very okay if spouses dont feel like talking at all as Non-verbal communication is 100% communication and it counts, especially as physical touch is just as effective as verbal affirmations.
You can simply put your legs on your lover, then lightly rub his or her back/arms or spooning; these non verbal affections can serve as an impactful way to connect, and care for each other before you go to sleep.
Knowing that pillow talk and love making happens in bed, it is natural to join the dots just in case you want pillow talk to lead to sex, then you can start with complimenting your spouse, appreciating their bodies and sexual acts; for example, I thought you looked hot in that suit today, or I love when you kiss me like that.
Build on those compliments by being sexually suggestive about things you want to try. This intimate talk can boost your sex libido and performance in bed and the tendency of hitting orgasm is high when you are emotionally satisfied.
Pillow chat may look trivial but a couple that indulges in the right discussions in bed, will always come out happier when compared to their counterparts that have the wrong conversation in bed.
Communication is very vital in marriages but finding the perfect time to communicate can leave couples feeling drenched in love and bliss, exactly what pillow chatting does to romance. You and your spouse alone enjoying downtime together without the world watching or listening in and no distractions
A quick look at some advantages of pillow talking:
The more time you pillow chat, the more likely your feelings/desires will turn into comfort. Pillow chat offers a moment to appreciate and relive the time you fell in love with one another: like a flashback to the beginning of your affair, which can help to ignite that lost spark, and get you lovey-dovey all over again.
Pillow chatting can help to save marriages and boost ones health being- Its a powerful tool for cementing your bond with your lovebird; offer couples the chance to share their feelings, show care and appreciate each other including airing their concerns, fears, joys and deep-seated feelings.
Burst stress, better sleep, end the day on a positive note, and take their intimacy to a whole new level: help you enjoy a more fulfilling and intimate life along with feeling more secured in your relationship (feeling emotionally and physically amazing). Feeling amazing will possibly help to reduce anxiety, ailments, as well as mental and physical health.
It enhances trust- Pillow chat is about releasing, allowing vulnerability, and showing up authentically with your significant other. Its one reason spouses who spend more time chatting to one another in bed show higher levels of trust.
Improves good night sleep- A number of times, you may find it difficult sleeping, when on the bed. With the brain not ready to shut off completely and with your mind whirling up and down, one way to calm down, is through pillow chat.
Pillow chatting is infinitely loaded with benefits and it wont hurt to give it a try for a healthy marriage. So make it a habit and you will see a trend of positive life.