WHAT MEN CRAVE FOR DURING MATING (2)
…Continued from last week (READ HERE)
He wants you to be loud when the need arises; “If you’re a screamer, scream. Don’t hold back your moans, groans, screams, and growls of pleasure,” it’s erotic and really turns them on. Not to mention the fact that it could be liberating for you too. Don’t hold back if you’re really in it in that moment as it’s a kind of communication, the only difference is that it’s way sexier.
*He wants active participation from his lady; “Many men like to have sex with women who actively participate,” which simply means, meeting his thrusts with your own thrusts, grinding your hips, and flexing your pelvic muscles and can be done from whatever position you take. You can also use your hands to squeeze your guy’s arms and, pull his body closer to yours or use your lips to explore more of his body. All these moves will let him know you are loving the action.
* The gentleman wants different positions; If you have always done it in missionary style on the bed a few nights a week, it could be possible that both of you are craving for a different position every now and then. You don’t have to go out of your comfort zone if you’re not comfortable. If it’s the other way round that you want him to spin you, against your kitchen cabinet, then do it.
* He wants you to take charge; Go girl take charge, show him the moves that get you off, he will love the idea of his own private peep show and he’ll be learning exactly what it is you need to get off, this is basically just investing in your future orgasms.
* He wants you to be direct; While he might act like he knows exactly what’s up, no one ever wished for less in bed, ask for what you really want and don’t be scared to tell him what you are and aren’t into such as ” that’s not doing anything for me, but I really liked it when you were doing this before,” will also help send a message. Note that positive reinforcement always works wonders. “Tell him how good it feels when he does something right or remind him of a technique that always gets you off,” suggests Gloria Brame PhD, a sex therapist in Georgia. “If he’s not giving you enough foreplay, ask him to use his hand or mouth to warm you up.’’ Repetition can be boring.
* There are times he doesn’t want to do nothing at all which is allowed and he might probably welcome a break. For a safe landing positions like reverse cowgirl, it will prevent him from controlling the rhythm you can go at whatever speed you like.
* He wants to talk about his fantasies; It’s a well know fact that guys are often hesitant to talk about their fantasies so as not to makes them vulnerable. Get to open up the communication by talking about your own fantasies first: this will make him comfortable enough for him to want share his own fantasies. This will definitely improve and help your relationship if the two of you discover which fantasies you have in common as it would be very easy to turn it into reality.
The last but yet the most fundamental thing that. your man truly crave for in bed, is to constantly hear his name from your lips during copulation. Nothing beats this sexiness for a man than to watch his beloved say his name while moaning.