The act of love making happens in different stages; as with food, sexual foreplay is the appetizer before the main meal [penetration]. It doesn’t have to be vanila all the time to avoid boredom.  

When you consider new ways of accessorizing intercourse in the bedroom, kitchen items are definitely the least of things that comes to mind. 

Just in case you desire the need to spice up a few things about your sex life, cool down, employ a frosty temperature play for a hottie night- Use cold elements to heat things up in bed, it creates a new and exciting sensation by stimulating the nerve endings in erogenous zones, which build anticipation, excitement and highly intensifying the pleasure.

 This is how you can use ice cubes including other chilled elements to steam up your sexual foreplay.

Get ice cubes which is one of the easiest elements for foreplay – Use it directly to tease your lover on his/her upper thighs, neck, or lips. You can also cool your hands with ice before stroking your spouse. The temperature change will heighten pleasure and send your partner over the edge. 

Bring out your trusty sex toys if you want to have a pleasurable time – Chill the toys in the refrigerator or cool them in an ice bucket. No need fretting if it happened that you have silicone sex toys, ice equally works really well on them and using temperature play is definitely going to give you some mind-blowing pleasure. Play safe by putting it on your wrist first, to check the temperature and avoid giving your bae/boo an ice burn.

Oral time – You stroking your lovebird directly with ice is one thing, but letting it drip from your mouth is completely on another level. Alternately putting your lips over his private organ, the combination of your warm mouth and chilly temperature is sure to make him drop his jaw. Be cautioned: [never place anything frozen directly on the genitals].

Show your sexmate a good time in bed by running your mouth along his/her body in patterns. Teasingly going up and coming down slowly, let your actions speak louder than your words. Dipping ice into the navel or sliding it from the arch of the back might get you some icy points.

Out with the blindfold if your partner is game – If there is anything that can bring sexual excitement to its peak, a blindfold might just be the trick. Not knowing your spouse’s next move or where the droplet will land next is a great way of increasing anticipation and pleasure which also heightens other sensitive organs in the body, and helps to add an element of surprise. 

Icy lip lock – Run your tongue back and forth on a cube of ice, and put the melted piece between your lips and if this sight does not do the trick of turning on your mate, the next will definitely. Kiss them with the ice still in your mouth, the stark contrast of your warm mouth and the cold ice is sure to send a shiver down your significant other’s spine.

Get a sweet treat – Feeling a little wild and experimental, grab a popsicle or some ice cream; temperature play when combined with food play, goes to another level of steamy. You can go strawberry and lick ice cream off your partner’s sensitive areas. Another great way of doing this is dipping your lover’s finger in some ice cream, swirl your tongue around it, keep licking and sucking it off their finger.

TO BE CONTINUED…