How to enjoy sex with your partner this Easter
Deep feelings such as love and sex, can be likened to the tap root that feeds a plant. , In order to keep that active, vital energy up and going, you have got to indulge in something exciting and seductive.
Long after the honeymoon phase has passed, relationships continue to develop in different stages.
You are only used to the early stages, which include meeting, dating, courtship and finally marriage.
Extending the honeymoon stage is what some couples fantasizes about as ‘’happily ever after.’’
With post-honeymoon, shock can set in when the other stages begin to unfold. A couple faces the reality of chores, job, financial stuff and finds that real life is not as romantic as the courtship, wedding and honeymoon stages. He realises that he has just just only started the real work of developing a great marriage.
Instead of allowing your energy go weary, you can devote more time for your sex life, so as to improve your relationship. Spouses who develop a sexual repertoire that include a variety of sexual habits, attitudes and options, and give feedbacks of feelings satisfied, can never get bored.
Below are tips to nourish your pleasure center back to health.
Quickies come in handy when you do not really have time for a full, leisurely romantic evening. One of you can decide to give oral sex before going to work, petting to climax in the car at a drive-in-movie, if necessary, make use of sex toys to have orgasms with limited foreplay late at night or take a nap and be sure to have quickie before rushing off to that party.
Sneaky love making has always added that ‘forbidden fruit’ spark, getting quick sex behind locked doors while the children are busy watching television, sneaking to make love in your childhood bedroom while at your parent’s place, visiting your spouse at work place and having quickie intercourse on the couch behind locked office door could be fun and thrilling.
Romantic intercourse is the real dose as it is a full package that is well padded; starting with the candlelight dinner, chatting quietly, dressing up, a romantic evening for two when you have the time alone at home, or a night out.
This is cool during festive seasons such as Valentine, birthdays, anniversaries, Christmas, Easter or whenever you think your relationship needs sexual boost.
Create a new couple sex by creating a scene from your dating days. Begin with the time you met and could not wait to make love, the flowers, gifts that you used to bring home as a surprise, or saying all the sweet nonsense, wildly- in- love things you said back then.
Every couple fights after which they settle their differences. Make sure that the make-up sex always lasts longer than the fights, arguments or struggles, as this love making can be extra tender and memorable.
Here comes the comforting sex: the partner that is caring and soothing, should help the sad and stressed spouse to unwind, by doing all your favourite things to comfort and relax you.
Relaxing sex is best for weekends especially as you do not have any obligations. You can laze around the house, have breakfast in bed and make love as you want with no pressure, no rushing and no demands on each other’s time.
Reassuring sex is the affection and intimacy that is intended to reassure your lover who is temporarily insecure, or designed to reaffirm your mutual love and commitment to one another.
This is most times accompanied with verbal declaration of love, and explaining over and over again, why you are both important to one another.
Fantasy sex is that act of all the naughty forbidden or exciting fantasies, role playing like your two favourite characters from a movie, novel, soap opera or any other stuff you can imagine.
This is actually the best time for wearing costumes, masks, sex toys or whatever enhancement gives you pleasure and sexual fulfillment that you take delight in.
Get to cleanse your space always so as to remove any form of stagnant energy. Be intentional to invite sensual, expressive energy back into the bedroom.
Love making on the long run is a committed affair that does not have to be boring. So, take advantage of the comfort stage and familiarity you have with your spouse to try new things, and experiment together as the potential of amazing intercourse is limitless.