8 quick lessons learnt from Busola Dakolo’s alleged rape sagaNo Case Matched!
Against the backdrop of the recent revelation by Busola, wife of singer, Timi Dakolo, allerging that she was raped by Pastor Abiodun Fatoyinbo of COZA ministries, we give you quick lessons we learnt from the saga.
Don’t follow anyone blindly
Dont be left in church alone with your male pastor or any male member. You will be safer and stronger if you work together in groups.
Learn to trust tour feelings.
Be careful if you:
-have a lasting feeling that something is not right.
-feel afraid, or like you want to leave.
-feel uncomfortable with happenings around, comments or suggestions the person or people are making.
-dislike the physical contact anyone makes.
Be prepared to get away if you are uncomfortable with who you are with or who you do not know well.
Speak out. There is so much joy and relief in speaking about it.
Trust no one but God