Spots for hot sex outside the Bedroom
The most sensuous bedroom can start to feel boring if that is the major place you and your spouse copulate all the time. One of the best forms of spicing up your sex life is by switching things up.
What could be more of the normal routine than getting intimate outside your bedroom? Enticing sexual opportunities exists throughout your apartment. In case you don’t know, check below for the best ways to get hot sex in every space of your house.
Bust out of the bedroom and consider getting into other spaces in the rest of your house. This will boost up the excitement and novelty. ‘’A new location can encourage a couple to be naughtier; perhaps, even tapping some desires that aren’t always explored, and starting conversation about what each other’s turns on are,’’ says Marissa Nelson, sex therapist and founder of Intimacy Moons Retreats.
Front of the Fire Place: nothing changes the mood of intercourse like that of a cracking fire; the flames highlight some body parts and throw shadows on others. This make you feel more mysterious and very sexy, thereby making it the ideal place to do a sexy striptease for your significant other. Fire also has an element of danger, and sex beside it ‘’can feel romantic and primitive,’’ says Eric Garrison, sex therapist and author of Mastering Multiple Positive Sex.
Couch: most couches are just too narrow for couples to get lots of wild sex positions: this makes it a great place to entwine with your spouse, enjoying super close sex with lots of skin on skin contact, either missionary style or from behind. Couch is also ideal for love making while sitting, ‘’Him sitting forward and her straddling him can be very intimate,’’ says Angela Skurutu, a St. Louis-based sex therapist.
Kitchen: this is often called the heart of the home, no wonder couples like getting busy in there. The tables and counters offer supportive surfaces of varying heights where you can test out different angles and styles. Kitchen is usually the warmest place in the house, so you will have to remove your clothes and take advantage of the fridge being in the kitchen to keep fun goodies for foreplay such as; dark chocolates, ice cream and a bottle of red wine. While at it, ‘’have the woman hop on to the counter and slide her bum to the edge,’’ says Nelson. ‘’The man can enter her as he stands and thrusts. Because her pelvis is elevated on the counter, this is the perfect position for G-spot stimulation as well as deep penetration.
Dining Room: there is no need for bed when you have a table. ‘’ If it can hold the two of you, hop on top for modified missionary, with your legs over his shoulders,’’ says Amy Levine, sex coach. If your guy would prefer to stand on the floor for a better thrust, sit on the table’s edge and wrap your legs around his hips. Dr. Nelson also suggested using the table for oral sex; he sits in a chair at the table, and you lie on your back on the table with your feet facing him.
Guest Bedroom: though this is a bedroom, it is not the same one you are used to, which makes it feels like a sexy retreat but with the kind of space and comfort you are used to. ‘’The cool thing about this space is that it can be your escape to pleasure, and you can giggle to yourselves every time you have a house guest,’’ says Nelson. With this in mind, you make this a special room where you push boundaries with different positions. Nelson suggests you ‘’Use the wall as a prop, with the woman’s back against the wall and legs up as he supports her weight, or doggy style with her hands on the wall for balance. Both are great for stimulating the clitoris during penetration.’’ When you are through, take advantage of the soft mattress and relax in the afterglow.
Closet: this usually has limited space, as such, it encourages couples to be in more creative positions. There are lots of props in the closet like belts and scarves that can be used as blindfolds or restraints. Putting the lights out allows spouses to have completely sensory experience since they cannot see, but have to feel each other. So depending on the size of your closet, you might be restricted to standing position or against the wall. If it is possible for you to lie down, get into the woman on top, reverse cowgirl or doggy style poses. ‘’These positions allow for the pelvis to be tilted and are amazing for clitoral stimulation and orgasm.’’
Laundry Room: Apart from the sexy vibrations of getting it on against a running machine or dryer, this can do wonders for your climaxes. Another good reason for the laundry room is because, it is a cool place for bumping and grinding. ‘’Rooms that are designed for storage are usually more soundproof than you can imagine,’’ says Tammy Nelson, PhD, sexologist and author of Getting the Sex You Want.
‘’Bring a blanket, pillows, and something soft and make a nest on the floor,’’ suggests Nelson. The small room and the nest of cozy blankets create a ‘held’ feeling, where sex can be more daring at the same time.’’
This is actually the time to do things that make you both scream with pleasures.
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