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Be careful Who you listen to

December 30,2019
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Becareful Who You Listen to

There was an advocate who believed Men Are Scum.

All her tweet were always targeted at the wrongs men do and why they don’t deserve to be loved by a woman.

She influenced so many women who believed in her ideologies and charade.

All discussion on her time line discredit men and painful stories of how men have abused and wronged them.

One morning, she posted a pre wedding picture of she and a man all loved up.

‘Found the love of my life’ was the caption.

Same person who has given over a thousand reason why a woman has to live independently without minding scums like men.

To cut the story short, she went contrary to everything she seemed to have stood for.

She married a Scum and left her followers to wallow in the dark.

This story simply warns that we ought to be careful who we listen to.

It also points out  the following

👉 It’s not every ideology that seems right deserves your loyalty. The only reason she kept saying those things was because she’s bittered and needed followers to join her charade.

More like she needed to know she’s not alone while waiting for the right one.

👉Ignorantly following a certain believe because of a person can be disastrous.

Before becoming the town crier of that person or cause, be truly certain it’s not a biased cause.

👉Dissect every information that gets to you, when you hear certain things, make enquiries, use your head and consult a professional if you have to.

Don’t allow confused people rub you of your little sanity.

Allow your instinct guide you, even while clamoring that Men are Scum, secretly she wants a loving man to call hers.

👉 Choose your battles yourself.

You’ve gone through so much in life that adding another’s burden to yours is insane.

👉Follow a leader with a clear vision.
If a vision is clear, you don’t need glasses to see clearly.
If there is a little shadiness, seek clarification and if not clear, exist with immediate effect.

There is so many ideologies that spring up from different angles on a daily basis.

Don’t let their noise distract you from your cause.

Be selective and careful of who you listen to.

You are destined for greatness, focus and wisdom will take you far.

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