Anita Tonye Isama, a lawyer, social activist and entrepreneur who is the estranged wife of one half of Psquare, Paul Okoye has outlined the lessons she learnt from their reconciliation after 5 years.

While celebrating their birthday today, November 18, Anita who has three lovely kids for Paul Okoye took to her Instagram page to join the rest of the world in celebrating them.

She shared a photo she took with the popular music duo and captioned it: “Dem be 1 no be 2!! Happy Birthday Ejima! This is best birthday present either of you could receive! Thank you for letting me have such a great relationship with both of you independent of your rift…I am delighted I didn’t let your coconut heads let me choose sides…There’s a lesson here –  Do not EVER involve yourself in a tiff that doesn’t concern you AND Don’t let social media and the opinion of those who do not matter define your situation! Let God guide you! Love Wins!!Happy Birthday @peterpsquare & @iamkingrudy.”

Anita and Paul got married in 2014 after dating for 10 years. The news of their divorce comes as a massive shock to both families and their close friends. 

A source close to the couple confirmed that both parties will proceed amicably with the legal resolution and be the best co-parents in the interest of their children.