Vanguard Allure

Top Menu

  • Vanguard

Main Menu

  • Home
  • Allure Magazine
    • Features
    • Magazine
    • Profiles
  • Allure TV
  • Celebration
    • Fashion & Style
    • Weddings
    • Lifestyle
    • Events
  • Wellbeing
    • Allure Woman
    • Healthy Living
    • Beauty
  • Happiness
    • Food
    • Shopping
    • Travel
    • Relationships
    • Career
  • News
  • Vanguard

logo

Vanguard Allure

  • Home
  • Allure Magazine
    • Vanguard Personality Of The Year Awards 2022

      January 29, 2023
      0
    • Ruky Ogbetuo: From Fashion Writing To Prolific Designer

      January 21, 2023
      0
    • Bisola Alabi: Tech Savvy

      January 15, 2023
      0
    • Wumi Jubril - Providing Ultimate Wellness Experience

      January 13, 2023
      0
    • Celebrities Share their New Year’s Resolutions with us

      January 2, 2023
      0
    • EZINNE DORA KAYODE-----Excelling in a man’s world

      January 2, 2023
      0
    • Gbemi and Toolz -On Career Path and Christmas

      December 25, 2022
      0
    • NGO trains women, PWDs in Mushin on funds sourcing for SMEs

      December 22, 2022
      0
    • Stakeholders call for more women's participation in political leadership positions

      December 19, 2022
      0
    • Features
    • Magazine
    • Profiles
  • Allure TV
  • Celebration
    • Fashion & Style
    • Weddings
    • Lifestyle
    • Events
  • Wellbeing
    • Allure Woman
    • Healthy Living
    • Beauty
  • Happiness
    • Food
    • Shopping
    • Travel
    • Relationships
    • Career
  • News
    • Paul Adefarasin’s mum passes on at 98

      February 6, 2023
      0
    • Joke Silva joins AGN Board of Trustees

      Joke Silva joins AGN Board of Trustees as first female member

      February 2, 2023
      0
    • Singer, Simi launches children clothing line

      Singer, Simi launches children clothing line

      February 2, 2023
      0
    • Charles George, the King of England, has asked Justin Welby, the archbishop of Canterbury, to mediate a settlement between his estranged sons Williams and Harry.

      King Charles brings Archbishop Of Canterbury to resolve dispute between William, Harry

      February 2, 2023
      0
    • How Regina Daniels replaced Georgina Ibeh's stolen gadgets with new ones

      How Regina Daniels replaced Georgina Ibeh's stolen gadgets with new ones

      February 2, 2023
      0
    • Nigerians blast Ka3na for faking pregnancy

      January 30, 2023
      0
    • Patoranking, Gbenga Laolu, Others Thrill At Vanguard Personality Of The Year Awards

      January 29, 2023
      0
    • Austin Faani wonders why actresses are not supporting Funke Akindele's Deputy Governorship ...

      January 26, 2023
      0
    • Mixed reactions as LASU bars students with indecent dressing from class

      January 24, 2023
      0
  • Ghanaian footballer discovered alive in Turkey’s earthquake rubble

  • Google to release AI Chatbot, ‘Bard’ for restricted testing

  • Zoom dismisses 1,300 employees in post pandemic reset

  • Paedophile commits suicide after court sentence in US

  • Paul Adefarasin’s mum passes on at 98

Allure MagazineRelationships
Home›Allure Magazine›The Sexually Bold And Confident Woman

The Sexually Bold And Confident Woman

February 27,2017
Share:

By Adesuwa Ewoigbokhan

To be a sexually bold and confident woman is a choice you make. You won’t be genuinely in it if it is your spouse that is asking you to be. Knowing about your sexuality, helps you to have a better erotic life; but if you choose not to, do not allow someone talk you into it because they want it for you. One needs to have a realistic talk with oneself; about whether one is ready to be a bold, sensual woman. This type of woman can be very creative, exciting, enjoys making the initial move;   sometimes terrifying and intimidating. So it can be said that, she not only enjoys her sexuality, but actively pursues erotic and sensual pleasures. She does not feel dependent on her man for the expression of her sexuality simply because she is confident of their relationship and also having the desire to understand sex skills, thus she goes out to seek information in order to give herself more self-esteem.

If you must know, women who think about sex are curious about sex; expressing themselves by the clothes they wear,  rejecting traditional shaming leverages used by society to tame women’s sexual initiatives, giving the impression that such behaviour are the exclusive preserve of men and that sex is only for procreation.
The truth be said, being sexually bold and confident is not easy. You may be smart at your job, but it is a different ball game when it has to do with eroticism. For fear of rejection, many women become nervous and hold back in expressing their feelings and desires. The way out of this, is to look for what works for you and give it an extra push. For a woman to take the leap from timid, tamed, homely girl to a sex goddess is not easy. Tweaking a few things here and there in and out of bed  is necessary.
It is very okay for a lady to have desires for love making, and to know it is okay to initiate sex. Her desires are equally as important as that of her spouse. She can take the first step by saying to her partner, ‘l feel horny tonight and want to feel good’.
The sexually bold woman is aware of what she likes and eager to share it with her man. She is creative when it comes to foreplay and the different sex positions to the point of having a conversation about it with her man.

A bold and confident sensual lady, takes delight in admiring her body, knowing very well she does not have a great body to enjoy erotic appeal but her bold sexuality make her accept her body as it is. She feels sexy about it during love making and enjoys dressing up to boost her ego as she is motivated to pamper and take good care of her body. Her not looking like a supermodel does not dull her libido because she values and knows the importance of a good eroticism. Even when not in the mood, she goes out of her way to put herself in that sexy frame of mind; she plans ahead what she will do while in the act, and makes it a priority.

She can say no when she feels what he is asking for is demeaning or dangerous because she knows that her sexuality is her personal gift that needs to be protected to keep herself emotionally healthy; though not afraid to try new things that could be fun. Also, she knows when to draw the line because the beauty of the sexual relationship does not rest mainly with her, but on both parties; that is the way they treat each other; maintain boundaries for positive feelings and emotions. All these good sexual experiences are the resultant effect of her being very much in control, relaxed, not being self-conscious, not being uptight, not wanting to score points and not being obsessed with rejection. She is opened up to a life of ‘success upon successes’ of hot sexual experiences.

On a final note sexual boldness and confidence is not about skill, it is about a mindset that knows that God made sex to be pleasurable for couples who are aware that it is good, have positive view about it, and are determined to take the love making experience to a great level if not there yet. It is what can be cultivated by learning more about eroticism and focusing on God’s intent towards erotic appeal. Look at it as a life time journey that does not blow sex out of perspective.

TagsEroticLoveRelationshipSex
Previous Article

Muma Gee files for divorce, cites domestic ...

Next Article

Reconciled? Lilian Esoro and Ubi Franklin step ...

0
Shares
  • 0
  • +
  • 0
  • 0
  • 0
  • 0

Related articles More from author

  • LifestyleRelationships

    I will never get married or have children – Actor Olu Michael

    November 30, 2019
    By Nancy Akahalu
  • HappinessRelationships

    Cold days and nights are the perfect time to get up the heat in their sex lives

    July 4, 2022
    By RITA
  • Allure MagazineNews

    Media Personality, Uti Nwachukwu reveals he is found someone that is head over heels in love with him

    February 23, 2017
    By allure1
  • Relationships

    #RelationshipTuesday: 3 reasons men never ask you out

    July 10, 2018
    By RITA
  • EntertainmentRelationships

    Submission goes both ways, Daddy Freeze writes Bishop Oyedepo

    September 4, 2020
    By Nancy Akahalu
  • LifestyleRelationships

    Relationships : The issues of life and love circles

    February 29, 2020
    By Nancy Akahalu
0

  • EntertainmentNews

    Senator Dino Melaye joins Nollywood, lands first movie role (Photos)

  • HappinessRelationships

    Why women enjoy sex more than others

  • At 50, I want to marry again - Ayo Adesanyo
    HappinessRelationships

    At 50, I want to marry again – Ayo Adesanya

  • 5312
    Followers
  • 12744
    Likes

Timeline

  • February 8, 2023

    Ghanaian footballer discovered alive in Turkey’s earthquake rubble

  • February 8, 2023

    Google to release AI Chatbot, ‘Bard’ for restricted testing

  • February 8, 2023

    Zoom dismisses 1,300 employees in post pandemic reset

  • February 8, 2023

    Paedophile commits suicide after court sentence in US

  • February 6, 2023

    Paul Adefarasin’s mum passes on at 98

Categories

Subscribe to our Newsletter

Sign up to receive email updates and to hear what's going on with our magazine!

  • Recent

  • Popular

  • Comments

  • Ghanaian footballer discovered alive in Turkey's earthquake rubble

    Ghanaian footballer discovered alive in Turkey’s earthquake rubble

    By joy onuorah
    February 8, 2023
  • Google to release AI Chatbot, 'Bard' for restricted testing

    Google to release AI Chatbot, ‘Bard’ for restricted testing

    By joy onuorah
    February 8, 2023
  • Zoom dismisses 1,300 employees in post pandemic reset

    Zoom dismisses 1,300 employees in post pandemic reset

    By joy onuorah
    February 8, 2023
  • Paedophile commits suicide after court sentence in the US

    Paedophile commits suicide after court sentence in US

    By joy onuorah
    February 8, 2023
  • Chioma Jesus, Sammie Okposo, Midnight Crew set for #THUGGLA2018

    By RITA
    April 24, 2018
  • American rapper, Kendrick Lamar wins Pulitzer prize for 2017 ‘Damn’ album

    By RITA
    April 17, 2018
  • Afrobeat singer, Seun Kuti drops new album titled ‘Black Times’ 

    By RITA
    April 23, 2018
  • Actor, Yul Edochie declares intention to run for presidency

    By RITA
    April 23, 2018

Entertainment

  • February 6, 2023

    Beyoncé becomes most decorated Grammy recipient

  • February 5, 2023

    BBNaija star, Phyna launches event planning business

  • February 3, 2023

    Why I was worried when Banky-W revealed his political ambition – Adesua

  • February 2, 2023

    Joke Silva joins AGN Board of Trustees as first female member

  • February 2, 2023

    How Regina Daniels replaced Georgina Ibeh’s stolen gadgets with new ones

Follow us