Media personality, Shade Ladipo finally shows off fiance, advises unmarried women to stay strong
By Patricia Uyeh
Media personality, Shade Ladipo, who got engaged recently, had faced pressures from the society to get married at some point particularly as she got older.
She took to social media to advise women who are facing similar situations to focus on building and making themselves happy.
She finally shared a photo of her fiance after keeping her fans in suspense then wrote
:
“It’s amazing how the world wants to tell you what you do or don’t deserve
“Ha Shade you’re already 35, just manage a divorcee or maybe an older guy or maybe someone with kids ….
“All these young guys don’t like strong women like you
“Ha Shade you’re driving brand new car, you will chase young guys away
“Ha Shade you’re living in a Penthouse Apartment, they will think you’re an Aristo babe
“Ha Shade you’re too out there on social media, they will think you are too loose
“Sigh
“What the world thinks you deserve …
“What the world wants you to have …
“It’s all a reflection of what their minds are limited to
“No matter your age, please don’t let anyone define what your life should or should not look like
“You decide that shit
“Take away the power you have given to anyone around you to determine what Success looks like
“Define your standards
“Write them down
“Keep yourself busy
“Work on building yourself
“Don’t ever settle for less
“YOU are Plan A and everything else is Plan B
“YOUR happiness is everything
“Everything you want is dependent on YOU”
Photo credit: Instagram@shadeladipo