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Why I divorced my husband- Fashion stylist, Toyin Lawani

April 24,2019
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Fashion stylist, Toyin Lawani has opened up about how her friend influenced her divorce from her husband and how people mocked her for having two kids from different dads.

She wrote:
“When you are Different.  The world will hate on you for no Reason , when they don’t understand your life choices or theories they will castigate u & everything u stand for , The women that go through the most in life Are single moms , They are Blamed for their choice of not being married or in a mans house, they take care of their kids day in day out pushing them to greater heights without uttering any complain&still let the fathers play their Role in the child’s life ,they struggle day in day out to Give D people around them joy&happiness, even plus how hard they work ,so when you want to blame a woman for being single or having kids with two different men , think twice cause it can happen to anybody, either by death or by pain , At times we don’t choice our situations ,At times our situation choose us , A long time ago a friend sent me a msg which I still have, mocking me that I was in an abusive relationship & showing off to me that she had a better husband than me , I took my kids&walked away from the relationship, said nothing to the public & focused on my business &kids ,till date ,little did we know that the husband beat her up everyday&she faked all her riches ,Now today my baby daddy Helps with my sons bills&act like a better dad, why I’m I saying this ?All that glitters are not gold ,At times we make future decisions for our kids ,by not fighting a bad situation with a bad situation, for the sake of our kids,cause the truth is the internet never forgets ,they will grow up&read all y’all silly negative write ups on their dads, two wrongs don’t make a right &hate can’t birth happiness ,when people mock me that I have two kids from different dads i laugh so hard �cause my dear it will be your bestie,your friend , your sister, your mother ,your aunty 2mrw, just make sure that they have their second baby with the 1st father of their child ok � I had my 1st kid when I was 23years old , I got married when I was 19years old , there are many things y’all don’t know about me , I have been through hell& back with no complains or pity party ,so if U want to judge my life choices make sure u are perfect 1st”

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