People create goals for different areas of their lives as they start the New Year such as sex, relationship, spiritual, finance, career, business, health and fitness goals.

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These goals also include, you having a new-look goal for your partner. In doing this, just make sure you set goals that are realistic, attainable, measurable and do reward yourself for achieving your goals.

Sexiness can actually be planned! There is no absolute truth that you either have it or you don’t. So if you are interested in looking hotter for your partner, there are proven ways to achieve it.

Get to learn how to wear makeup. Some men prefer a little makeup because they feel it makes you look hot. Apply make up to bring out the natural beauty of your eyes, or to highlight the lushness of your lips as that is the key to looking natural.

Do not cake on it, just use shimmer powder or lotion with shimmer in it so that your body glistens.

Put it on your cleavage and shoulder. Guys are not fans of bright makeup colours like green or bright blues.

A preferred choice when going out should be smoky eyes. Grays, silver, gold, brown and black can achieve this.

Put powder under your eye and above your eyelid, settle for a neutral lip. Do not over use eye or lip liner and wrap up with a little black mascara.

Try something different ‘down stairs’ be groomed to surprise him. Although regular shaving is not advisable, but it will make you more confident. Get to do your manicure and your pedicure professionally as clipped nails are not in vogue.

For the hairy ladies, shave your legs, underarms and get your eyebrows done professionally. You will be surprised how grooming your brows can suddenly improve your look.

Take advantage of colours to entice him. The colours you wear on your nails, clothing, shoes, bags -can trigger different sensations in him depending on the colours you choose. Red colour will make him think you are hot.

Studies have shown that men rate ladies in attractiveness when they put on red and are more likely to date them. It is really cool to wear not more than two colours at a time, add a flash of color with bright necklace or shoe when wearing black.

A single piece of jewelry can make your appearance look a lot hotter. Black colour is quite associated with sex appeal as a guy is likely to consider you sophisticated and elegant if you wear it.

While other colours such as blue and brown are less likely to be considered with being ‘hot’, these two colors convey dependability and stability.

Be sure to look good when he wakes up. A number of men use this as test, that is if a lady looks good when she wakes up in the morning, or if she is a scary sight when she does not have makeup on. Hence, you should try no makeup during the day to show him you can do without it. If he thinks you look pretty this way too, he will be very impressed.

The key to pulling off the no makeup look, is a healthy diet and a great skincare by cleaning your face every night and a high quality facial cream. Don’t forget sunscreen during the day.

Never sleep with makeup on, a fresh face will look better in the early morning light than smudged mascara and lipstick left over. You can always wake up before him to use the bathroom, brush your teeth, comb your hair, and put a little blush or powder but try not to make it obvious.

Always wear something nice and sexy though not in a corset but definitely don’t sleep next to him in a ratty night wears or shapeless jogging pants. You wearing his t-shirt is something he will almost consider hot or just put on something with spaghetti straps. you can never go wrong with these. Always take him unawares by wearing sexy, but classy lingerie to bed.

Give attention to your feet, some ladies usually ignore their feet which could be a big mistake.

A beautiful outfit can be ruined if you are putting on old, scuffed, matronly shoes. High heel for a night out will make a man think you’re hot although you should not wear them every time.

Master the art of speaking sexy- verbal flirtation he will think you are hot. Your being hot has got nothing to do with how you look physically, instead, whisper especially into his ears.

Compliment him on his appearance, tell him he looks hot and if he feels more confident, he will get a boost of energy and may just return the favour.

Embrace your curves, strive to be healthy and develop a workout routine even if it’s walking for 30 minutes several times a week.

Eat a balanced diet that is heavy in natural foods, such as fruits and vegetables but don’t get deceived that guys prefer skinny women. Men actually say they like a few curves on ladies even a rounded stomach.

The whole ideal is to project confidence, be comfortable in who you are, not the type that go out for dinner with her partner and won’t touch her plate. This is not very hot for guys.

Have a silky hair for him to touch this is sensual, take care of your hair. A flip of shiny, healthy hair is bound to attract any man. It is hot to have a bouncy, shiny hair, so get natural colour or subtle highlights.

Dodge the ‘skunk’ look or anything heavy. Men like hair they can run their fingers through. You can be hot if you put your hair in pony tail, wearing your hair swept to the side look romantic and hot. Find a look that suits your personality and your face shape.

Smile a lot, it is not about putting lip gloss on your lips. It’s about showing a joy of life and nothing draws a man like a beautiful smile.

Do not force the smile, make it a natural one. Get to play up femininity. It will make him feel manly and protective.

Put on skirts and dresses more than trousers this will make you look more feminine. If you have to wear jeans, avoid jeans that are too plain or have holes in them.

In conclusion, try having interests outside your man. ‘’Cleopatra was no great beauty but her ability to attract men was legendary.

That’s because she understood how to appeal to man’s common interest and spoke multiple languages’’.

Guys are intrigued by ladies who have interests outside of them and can add something to the conversation. So, find a cause and deepen your knowledge in several areas that are of interest to you.