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Are you healed from it all?

March 20,2020
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HEALING

As Christians or believers constantly it’s brought to our consciousness that forgiveness is a necessity.

In our prayers we are reminded with the attachment that, if we fail to forgive others our father in heaven won’t forgive us.

Because of the faith and fear of our Lord we sometimes forgive without really letting go.

We show off our teeth rather than smile from within.

Sometimes we revisit the wrongs piled up in our heart and bitterness fills us up.

Our actions and decisions get centered on avoiding the repetition or reoccurring of certain things that has pierced our soul previously.

This bitterness clouds our assessment of certain situations, we certainly do not need a repeat of the callous treatment of the past.

Once it seems like it, we shot the door and await for another with a different attribute forgetting that ” looking like it, is not it. ”

I totally agree that it’s only a fool who makes a mistake twice but in trying to avoid such mistake, don’t stop living.

Learning from the past and truly letting go is all that is required to give us the calm and peace our lives require.

Healing is a psychological process of dealing with a problem. Have you done that??

Being truly healed means you are no longer haunted by that particular event.

Being truly healed means you can see the offender and not revisit the hurt.

It means you can talk about the heart wrecking act comfortably without sentiment and loss of focus.

It’s really awesome that what ever
we go through is not written all over us for the world to see, that’s why it’s said that we don’t look like what we’ve been through.

Don’t comman look like what you’ve been through, the only thing it attracts is pity and that does a great deal of harm to your personality and self confidence.

Know that you are in charge of your feelings and in the word of Eleanor Roosevelt

“No one can hurt you without your consent ”

Being truly healed is the foundation for a more peaceful, joyful and fun life.

Know that your healing determines your prosperity.

To completely heal from a hurt, you have to critically analyze the issue without
bias and emotional attachment.

See things from all necessary angle other than yours, evaluate and finally come to a sound unbiased conclusion.

What ways have you sought healing?
Are you stuck in your feelings or holding onto a hurt?

Open your hands and raise it above you and say these words,

” I am beautifully and wonderfully made, I refuse to be clapped down by bitterness. I choose to truly live and not exist.

I am a rare being and all I deserve is peace, love and prosperity.

I am HEALED

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