Vanguard Allure

Top Menu

  • Vanguard

Main Menu

  • Home
  • Allure Magazine
    • Features
    • Magazine
    • Profiles
  • Allure TV
  • Celebration
    • Fashion & Style
    • Weddings
    • Lifestyle
    • Events
  • Wellbeing
    • Allure Woman
    • Healthy Living
    • Beauty
  • Happiness
    • Food
    • Shopping
    • Travel
    • Relationships
    • Career
  • News
  • Vanguard

logo

Vanguard Allure

  • Home
  • Allure Magazine
    • Kemi And Dolapo Shabi: #AFreeUnion Winners

      March 7, 2021
      0
    • Fireboy: The Artiste To Beat

      February 28, 2021
      0
    • Azeez Oladapo Yusuf

      Azeez Oladapo Yusuf - Life of a serial entrepreneur @50

      February 28, 2021
      0
    • Princess Kelechi Oghene: Building Fashion Legacy

      February 21, 2021
      0
    • Gedoni And Khafi Ekpata

      Gedoni And Khafi Ekpata: To Love And To Hold

      February 14, 2021
      0
    • 'I'm pushing only JESUSBrand' - Dupsy Oyeneyin, Gospel Singer

      January 31, 2021
      0
    • Juliet Okonkwo: From Passion To Goldmine

      January 31, 2021
      0
    • Making music is my ministry, obedience to call of God - Chineze ...

      January 31, 2021
      0
    • Samuel Animashaun Perry: Arrival of Broda Shaggi

      January 24, 2021
      0
    • Features
    • Magazine
    • Profiles
  • Allure TV
  • Celebration
    • Fashion & Style
    • Weddings
    • Lifestyle
    • Events
  • Wellbeing
    • Allure Woman
    • Healthy Living
    • Beauty
  • Happiness
    • Food
    • Shopping
    • Travel
    • Relationships
    • Career
  • News
    • When I tested positive for COVID-19, my household ran from me - ...

      March 5, 2021
      0
    • Northern Food Traders plan to lift the embargo on food supplies to ...

      March 3, 2021
      0
    • My Wife Wasn’t My Classmate, We Met On Flight – Actor Spiff ...

      March 2, 2021
      0
    • Nigeria Begins registration for COVID-19 Vaccine

      March 2, 2021
      0
    • BBNaija’s Dorathy, Patience Ozokwor Star In Mr Macaroni’s Skit

      March 1, 2021
      0
    • Herbert And Hana Launches Luxury Brand, Features Classic Pieces That Transcends Time

      February 28, 2021
      0
    • How I lost My Mum At 5 - Nancy Isime

      February 24, 2021
      0
    • Ekiti gov pays condolence visit widow of Flt Sgt Olawunmi

      February 23, 2021
      0
    • ebuka

      ‘9 months after lockdown, now babies everywhere, time well spent’ – Ebuka ...

      February 22, 2021
      0
  • BEAUTIFUL COLOUR SCHEME IDEAS FOR YOUR BEDROOM

  • Ways To Style Mint Green Trend

  • Int’l Women’s Day: When Patriarchal Leadership Is No Longer In Vogue

  • Kemi And Dolapo Shabi: #AFreeUnion Winners

  • Fani-Kayode’s estranged wife demands N3.5m monthly child support

LifestyleWellbeing
Home›Celebration›Lifestyle›Are you in charge of your happiness?

Are you in charge of your happiness?

March 19,2020
Share:

This is a question you really need to answer ;Are you in charge of your happiness?

You see being happy is a choice we all need to make for ourselves.

While some have succeeded in creating their own happiness.

Others unfortunately has left theirs in the hands of another human.

We all know that humans are fickle , they can change on you with the turn of events.

The person in your life now might become a stranger tomorrow.

What happens to your happiness then?

It’s OK to want to be at peace with all but the truth is you really can’t be at peace with everyone.

Some persons, no matter how hard you try to make it work out with them, it really never works out.

It seems they built a barrier that continuously shields your effort.

Leaving your happiness in the hands of such people only leaves you at their mercy.

They can decide to keep you happy or sad any day by the little things they do.

One of my favorite quote says “No one can hurt you without your permission ”

Since I learnt about this quote I’ve tried to live it and be in absolute control of my happiness.

I tell certain people, it will take you alot of sweat to get me angry.

Reason is that I decide what affects me and that gives me perfect control.

I understand that most times we need people to succeed in life, business, career, academic and different walks of life.

But the truth remains we ought to be in perfect control of our happiness even while relating with negative people.

Always remember this, your happiness and mental health is of utmost importance, therefore;

Do not leave your happiness in the hands of another human or thing regardless of the position they occupy in your life.

Be in charge and live a life of happiness and fulfilment.

TagsHappinessTaking charge
Previous Article

My daughter has gone into self isolation ...

Next Article

Mercy Chinwo announce title for her second ...

0
Shares
  • 0
  • +
  • 0
  • 0
  • 0
  • 0

Related articles More from author

  • CelebrationHappiness

    The best is yet to come, says TV girl, Vimbai Mutinhiri, who clocks 32 today

    February 18, 2019
    By allure1
  • HappinessLifestyle

    How to be truly happy in life

    April 2, 2020
    By Nancy Akahalu
  • Happiness

    Actor, Deyemi Okanlawon and wife go for 2nd honeymoon in Paris

    June 6, 2019
    By allure1
  • Allure WomanCelebrationHappiness

    Actress, Joke Silva celebrates husband, Olu Jacobs at 77

    July 11, 2019
    By allure1
  • FoodHappiness

    My Lagos city adventure

    April 30, 2019
    By RITA
  • Allure WomanCelebration

    Actress, Chiege Alisigwe is plus one today

    November 21, 2018
    By allure1
0

  • Allure Woman

     Michelle Obama makes surprise appearance for Alicia Keys at Grammy Awards

  • Allure MagazineEntertainment

    Ace record label executive, Kenny Ogungbe opens his own radio station.

  • Allure Woman

    #AllureWomanQuoteOfTheDay: Don’t live up to people’s expectations- Chimamanda Adichie


  • 5331
    Followers
  • 12744
    Likes

Timeline

  • March 7, 2021

    BEAUTIFUL COLOUR SCHEME IDEAS FOR YOUR BEDROOM

  • March 7, 2021

    Ways To Style Mint Green Trend

  • March 7, 2021

    Int’l Women’s Day: When Patriarchal Leadership Is No Longer In Vogue

  • March 7, 2021

    Kemi And Dolapo Shabi: #AFreeUnion Winners

  • March 6, 2021

    Fani-Kayode’s estranged wife demands N3.5m monthly child support

Categories

Subscribe to our Newsletter

Sign up to receive email updates and to hear what's going on with our magazine!

  • Recent

  • Popular

  • Comments

  • BEAUTIFUL COLOUR SCHEME IDEAS FOR YOUR BEDROOM

    By RITA
    March 7, 2021
  • Ways To Style Mint Green Trend

    By RITA
    March 7, 2021
  • Int’l Women’s Day: When Patriarchal Leadership Is No Longer In Vogue

    By RITA
    March 7, 2021
  • Kemi And Dolapo Shabi: #AFreeUnion Winners

    By RITA
    March 7, 2021
  • Chioma Jesus, Sammie Okposo, Midnight Crew set for #THUGGLA2018

    By RITA
    April 24, 2018
  • American rapper, Kendrick Lamar wins Pulitzer prize for 2017 ‘Damn’ album

    By RITA
    April 17, 2018
  • Afrobeat singer, Seun Kuti drops new album titled ‘Black Times’ 

    By RITA
    April 23, 2018
  • Actor, Yul Edochie declares intention to run for presidency

    By RITA
    April 23, 2018

Entertainment

  • March 6, 2021

    Court orders OAP Daddy Freeze to pay N5m in damages for committing adultery

  • March 6, 2021

    See Davido’s reaction after watching himself perform in “Coming 2 America”

  • March 5, 2021

    Mercy Eke, Kim Oprah, Juliet Ibrahim and other Celebrities at the premiere of ‘Coming 2 America’

  • March 5, 2021

    BBNaija’s Elozonam & Twin brother recreate childhood pictures

  • March 5, 2021

    Women Can’t Get Away With Things Like Men In The Music Industry – Simi

Follow us