At a certain age say between the ages of 24,  a young lady is supposedly ready for marriage.

Her family and the society at large looks at her to introduce her would be husband.

This had put unnecessary pressure in women and made them take horrible steps,all so they can be married.

While rushing to get married they forget the most important step that will make them whole wives and leave them happy.

This is a letter to every young lady whines desperate to get married.

Dear Ladies,

I know you are now a graduate, In your twenties or possibly thirties.

It’s time for you to get married (that’s according to your thought)

I won’t disagree with you on that but I want to ask you a question, how prepared are you?

Have you thought this marriage thing thoroughly?

Are you really ready for marriage?

Do you know instead of changing church every month.

Fasting 30days back to back and praying 8hours everyday.

What you really need to do is this…

Spend more time reading and acquire not just knowledge but wisdom too.

Develop yourself and the unique talent God deposited in you.

You are created to do wonders.
Multiple the world not only with children but with your ideas, innovation, projects, establishment and wisdom.

Don’t be remembered for been just an obedient and loyal wife ,who stayed at home watching Zee world, gossip, drive the best car in town.

Be remembered for something that won’t fade in a hurry, Dora Akunyili won’t be forgotten in a hurry. (we all know her story)

Let the world benefit from the YOU in YOU…

When you are a success, A man will respect you.

Don’t be scared, making too much money as a spinster will attract the best Man designed for you.

It will only chase away irresponsible and She_Men.

That man who will respect and treat you right will definitely locate you when you begin to shine bright like a diamond.

Most importantly be A Star, illuminate the part way for other women to flourish and together we can eradicate domestic violence and gender abuse.

Common ladies, we run these world…

Don’t comman kill yourself with praying and fasting for a husband(shebi our God is all knowing).

His only preparing the right man for you.

PS: marriage is beautiful and sweet when you are fully prepared.

Prepare yourself not for marriage but to becoming a better person who will help change the world.

We(women) are special being. Lets see the uniqueness in you.

When you’ve done all the above, you can beat your chest and say,  I am ready for marriage.

It’s only when you prepare for a thing that you can succeed in it.

Success doesn’t come by chance,  takes alot of work from your part.

What’s your thought, I want to hear from you.

Do you feel there is a need for her to prepare for marriage??