By Adesuwa Ewoigbokhan

Who would have thought that a day would come, when women can actually complain about their husbands’ sexual performances in the bedroom? All thanks to COVID-19 that has made this possible.

 

Actually, anything can affect a guy’s sex libido considering the present pandemic, general uncertainty, drop in business and income, loss of clients, loss of investments, fear of job loss etc.
Sadly, most men are not handling this very well and this affects activities in the “other room.”

There is no denying the fact that men and women love sex. And when they decide to get down to business, there are different places of one’s body to explore; the man’s body is not an exception.

The erogenous zones of a man when rightly touched can create excitement. These areas are worth paying extra attention to and if your partner wants you to deliberately touch them during sex, that makes it a bonus.

Ladies, have you ever wondered where men would like to be touched? l guessed the answer is no. If you must know, men have a few pleasure points that make them go weak in the knees just like the women. In case you are clueless when it comes to hitting the right button in bed, here are a few spots your man is expecting you to touch to get him turned on.

*The back of his neck is sensitive, an unexpected wet peck at this zone, accompanied by nibbling and kisses can cause sudden shiver. When next you are at it, gently start with shoulder massage with a breathy kiss on his shoulder, this will drive him crazy.

*Nibble the back of his ears: when thinking of where to touch your lover during romance, let it be the back of the ear. It is as pleasurable for him as it is for ladies. Get started by planting a breathy kiss on the back of his ear, gently touch his ears or lick them a little, and get to see his mood change. No bedmate can ever resist a few dirty whispering in his ear which ends in using your tongue to send shiver down his spine.

*Stroking around his inner thighs can crop up amazing results. l bet you, this is one of the most forgotten places to touch. So don’t just get lost around his package, explore the area around it a little and touch the inner area of his thigh gently. Caressing and licking it can make the fun steamier; he will definitely just love it.

*Be sure not to miss out his face as every man loves the gentle touch of a female’s hand on his face. Gently touch his face while talking or cuddling or simply massage his temples. He will feel aroused and relaxed all at the same time.

*Touching of hands are very powerful. In fact, the hands are the most appreciated sex tools. Touch his hands and hold them when cuddling or smooching. This act will not only bring him closer to you, but will increase the heat between the bed sheets and send signal to him that you are in the mood for the real action.

*A guy’s feet are one of his hidden weapons; there is nothing weird about touching him around his feet during foreplay. Take a break and give him a gentle and sexy massage when going down on him, he is bound to love you for it.

*Men like it when women pay attention to the shaft of their penis; they never confuse it with a hand job. All you need do is to gently run your fingers from the tip of his penis to down below and watch him moan as if his life depends on it. Areas such as the testicles are equally sensitive, softly touch them to make him feel like the sky is the limit.

*Note that guys have G-spots too which is located near their rectum. It’s kind of a private region and you may need to seek his permission before engaging in this one act. If you like; spank or cuddle his butt, it will definitely turn him on when he is least expecting it and he is bound to reward you for it.

*Pinching your nipples is sure to crazily arouse. You can do the same to him too since his nipples are equally as sensitive as yours. If your spouse is game when you play with his nipples, then this trick will surely work. Stroke it, use your tongue to gently suck them and playfully apply pressure to see what makes him wild, or simply spread some chocolate or ice cream on them for licking. Go super slow and it will help your way to steamy sex.

*Tantalize his tongue by teasing; to make him want more of you, playing with each other’s tongue in bed is a good start and nothing can be more tempting or seducing than this. Commence with kissing, sucking his tongue by slightly pulling it back. Tease him every now and then for a few seconds, give some space while teasing him with your tongue, this will make him go gaga and will want to close the gap to get your tongue. Just a bit of chasing back and forth will make it worth the fun.

*Carefully run your fingers through his hair when kissing him, also from time to time, grab his hair and pull his head backwards for a passionate kiss. Men love it when the woman is in charge, get to be confident and take control of him.
Ladies, now that you aware of the hidden spots, it is time to create the ultimate pleasure in the bedroom.