Why most men want to live off single mums – Victoria Inyama
Nollywood actress, Victoria Inyama in recent times has not been a quiet person, she recently lamented the dating challenges single mothers face.
The mother of four also advised her fellow female lone parents to be on the alert for men who are out there to deceive and render them bankrupt with false marriage promises.
Hear her, “Female lone parents should know that they and their children have been through so much, so be they need to be careful with that man coming into their lives! Especially in the West where a lot of the guys just enjoy living off women! Dear single mum, before you accept all the toasting, please know what he really want; a relationship or a person to use. There are awesome guys out there who would date and marry a lady with children but majority of them just want to live off single mothers. They may borrow money or beg you to take out credit for them or even move in with you, please ensure that that guy has a job that can pay for his lifestyle. Don’t be fooled by his words and Social media lifestyle. All na wash wash. Don’t be afraid to be alone and take good care of yourself and your children!
Once they cannot use you, they claim you are difficult. It is better to be difficult than stupid because if they can’t get from you, they will move on to the next victim. Moreover if you dig deep you will find out that they are really married and their wife is tired of funding their lifestyles,” she said.
Ms Inyama who suffered a traumatic divorce also added she’s totally against beating a child as punishment.
“Research has also proven that beating damages children and breeds them into violent adults. Parents should recognise and respect children’s feelings! Teach their children how to manage conflicts & Negative feelings without Violence.”