What you must teach your daughters – Victoria Inyama tells mothers
Pretty Nollywood actress, Victoria Inyama in recent times has not been a quiet person, as she keeps hammering on issues bothering mothers and single motherhood.
The divorced actress who is now currently a citizen in United States in a new post on her social media page gave mothers some important parenting tips for their teen daughters.
Ms Inyama wrote, “I am responsible for my post but NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR HOW YOU UNDERSTAND IT!
Moms of teen daughters, we need to start building up our daughters for this modern world……We have to encourage them to focus & not be distracted by Social media, The Others.. ……
How the hardwork & discipline of the Morning & Afternoon of our lives pays off in the Evening… Tell them often Never to depend on anyone but themselves…..Tell them about the types of friendships & how to manage others irrespective of their race/Color/Religion ……To be self reliant and Not The plan to Marry a Rich man but buildup together……….
Teach them that money is Good but must not harm themselves or DIGNITY to get it….Stop putting family financial responsibility on your young Daughters!!!!
Also Remember that You are her 1st Role model….Teach her Not to put Money before her Emotions/Self worth/ Morals….Tell her that there are good men that still Appreciate a good simple decent girl..Tell her that being modest is a virtue 👌
These l tell my Beautiful young daughter too.”
Few weeks ago, the mother of three lamented the dating challenges single mothers face.
Victoria Inyama also advised her fellow female lone parents to be on the alert for men who are out there to deceive and render them bankrupt with false marriage promises.
Hear her, “Female lone parents should know that they and their children have been through so much, so be they need to be careful with that man coming into their lives! Especially in the West where a lot of the guys just enjoy living off women! Dear single mum, before you accept all the toasting, please know what he really want; a relationship or a person to use. There are awesome guys out there who would date and marry a lady with children but majority of them just want to live off single mothers. They may borrow money or beg you to take out credit for them or even move in with you, please ensure that that guy has a job that can pay for his lifestyle. Don’t be fooled by his words and Social media lifestyle. All na wash wash. Don’t be afraid to be alone and take good care of yourself and your children!
Once they cannot use you, they claim you are difficult. It is better to be difficult than stupid because if they can’t get from you, they will move on to the next victim. Moreover if you dig deep you will find out that they are really married and their wife is tired of funding their lifestyles,” she said.
Ms Inyama who suffered a traumatic divorce also added she’s totally against beating a child as punishment.
“Research has also proven that beating damages children and breeds them into violent adults. Parents should recognise and respect children’s feelings! Teach their children how to manage conflicts & Negative feelings without Violence.”
Watch Victoria Inyama’s full IG video here