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How to enjoy playful and fun sex this New Year

January 4,2021
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It’s that time of the year once again when you make all your New Year resolutions that will make for life.

While sex may be good for lovers, indulging in it constantly is even better because of its health benefits.


You are not alone when it comes to boosting action in your bedroom; a number of lovers actually want to make their sex lives more fun and playful.

Take your sexual life from not too impressive, to amazing level with these pointers:
*Never fake it- you don’t have to pretend in the bedroom especially if you want more mind-blowing sex, you don’t have to lie about what does not thrill you. ‘’You should never fake an orgasm’’, says relationship expert Wendy Walsh, Ph.D., of the 30-Day Love Detox. ‘’That thing he was doing wrong, he’s now going to keep doing it.’’ Instead, let him know when something feels amazing, either by speaking up or engaging in some pretty obvious body language. That way, there is no confusion about what you really like in bed. Also worth knowing, great sex can exist without an orgasm.


*Disregard that old conception that only men crave something new in bed. Research has shown women are even more likely to desire sexual novelty says Walsh. Satisfy the urge by doing something totally outside your sexual script.


*Match your position with your mood- the same way your dates range from romantic to passionate, your hob-nobbing should too. Depending on the mood you are in, get creative with your sex style, craving emotional intimacy and eye contact, then settle for missionary style and if you want to rip off each other’s clothes the minute you close the door, go for upstanding citizen style. Want to be in charge, hop on top for reverse cowgirl style.


*Make sex fun by taking turns to give and receive. Agree on how much time each person should use and take turns doing whatever it is your spouse wants, then switch. Pleasing your mate can put you in the mood even more. Take the reins, ‘’If you’re a woman wanting more novelty, it’s great to be a little bold and assertive’’.


*Host a quickie- this can just be for a few minutes, be sure to slip an invitation into your spouse’s back pocket or dinner napkin saying, ‘’Your presence is needed in the bedroom from 7:30-7:45 pm.’’


Light some scented candles with a chilled wine on standby, and wear nothing but high heels, and a clean fragrant skin under your bathrobe. He will be surprised when he finally gets to the room to see you with your hostess skills that the party will be rocking in no time.


*Make your regular night out extra exciting, by letting your inner bad girl run the show. Wear slinky lingerie to dinner, give him unexpectedly, bare thighs, or give him your panties on the way back from the restroom. He’ll love it and according to seductive sources, you will too.


*Couples who share good sex lives are creative- what is that new sex position, approach, or sex toy you would really like to try? It might be amazing what you might learn.
Get on it as you can always start tonight!
HAPPY NEW YEAR!

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