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COVID-19 VALENTINE: HOW TO SPICE UP YOUR SPOUSE’S DESIRES IN BED

February 7,2021
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The Love day known as Valentine’s Day is quickly approaching and it is going to be a bit different from the usual. Though it may look a lot unusual, it does not have to be less romantic.

The limitations of the pandemic can make it even harder because so many things are closed or restricted. Do not stress as there are still a plethora of other fun and romantic Valentine’s activities to entertain your partner, enough to make this February 14th one of the most memorable even without leaving your house.

Once you understand that you can have fun within the confines of your home as well as know what your spouse wants, then, this is actually the opportunity to create your own kind of Valentine’s Day.

In as much as some couples like hiding their emotional side, deep down, they all want to have sexual fun especially on a day like Valentine.

This attitude can be traced to our childhood, where we want to be fed and kept safe; and if we do not feel that the people around us take pleasure in our existence, then we don’t really thrive on our own.

The same plays out in adult relationships, as we all want our lovebirds to be happy and bonding which often looks a lot like mother-child bonding; all that touching, stroking and eye-gazing, those satisfied, dreamy, out-of-focus smiles on both your faces. Eros love has actually helped us to recall our attachment to the first people who held us, rocked us, enjoyed us and told us we were wonderful and this we can play out with our partners this season of love.

Despite the fact that people get aroused, have good orgasms and so on, what they really want is to be able to laugh, giggle, be silly, vulnerable and be able to enjoy the kind freedom that as an adult you only really get when you’re having sex.

You knowing that Eros is infantile, it will be easy to see why a number of people see sex as such an emotional thing, and why few things can make them feel quite as good or bad about themselves.

 A lot of times, people just don’t just feel their lover enjoy them anymore. This could be especially true when there is so much emphasis on technique in bed.

Most times, couples will tell you they’re trying to please their spouses because it is what all the magazines tell them to do; but this is very wrong.

In a romance novel, you never see the hero rip off the heroine’s clothes and then say, “Now, tell me how you like to be touched.” No, he just kind of devours her because she is so irresistibly delicious.

The world is speeding up and the best couples do is to tether towards their electronic devices. In this state, one of the activities to fall first is that of touching. It is all about time to unplug and get tactile; slip into a silky dress, apply your hand to play, use sex toys for effect, or curl up in a new set of bed sheets. All these will make this Valentine what its worth.

I tell you, most ladies will do anything to read about someone being enjoyed like that. And who  says you can’t be that person this Valentine?

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