…CONTINUED FROM PREVIOUS WEEK

READ PART ONE HERE!

Bring in the element of oral sex – Give her a surprise by introducing oral sex which is far more enjoyable. It is seen as the best way to satisfy a lady in bed. Do this by licking, biting, grabbing and playing with her skin; there is so much to do with that body. Tease her, lick her, love her, use your hands to play with her body,  touching everywhere. Massage her boobs, stimulate her down there, use your tongue for teasing and a bit of licking will do wonders, and she will respond by being an active participant to these moves. A soft bite on her folds of skin will make her groan with pleasure. 

Always ask her what she likes or desires – Do not impose your moves, ask her how she would like to be loved. Make her needs and desires a priority. Give importance to what she prefers and how she prefers it, which will help in shedding her inhibitions on sex and also answer your own basic questions on how to fully satisfy sexually.

Make out at different places in your home – Never restrict yourself to the bedroom; explore other spots in the house like the kitchen, library, staircase, study or even bathroom. You can use public places if you are the adventurous type, to experience that rush of adrenaline. This will add new memories and every time she is at these places, it will make her smile and more importantly, she will long to relive those moments.

Try using sex toys to spice up things a little bit in the bedroom – You may have mastered the art of sex but if you want to be the Don in the game, use sex toys. The use of a vibrator along with actual sex can turn your lovebird on big time, as it not only heightens pleasure for women in bed, it’s also good for your relationship.

The most important tip is to let her achieve orgasm before you do. If you reach an orgasm before her, chances are, she will have to make do without one. Get to control your erection, let her have the first high point in your lovemaking session.

Fingering – Is another way of pleasing your lady. The fingers can do a lot more than you think when it comes to giving sexual pleasure. It can help your woman get ready for sex and even lubricate her vagina naturally. For those women who find sex painful, start with fingering before penetration to make her comfortable. Begin with a finger, as things heat up, use two and once she’s at arousal state, blow her away with great sex. 

Praise her – Nothing boosts one’s confidence like a genuine compliment. If you love something about her body, tell her. Praise her figure, give her a compliment about how good a kisser she is, or when you love something she does to you. This will not only make her happy, but she will be willing to try new things with you.

So, the best way to make her feel special is to pamper her sexual desires as they help to get her aroused. Once you light the fire, she’s ready to roar.