How I was abused by my nanny, young boys – Bam Bam
Former “Double Wahala” contestant on Big Brother Naija Bamike Olawunmi Adenibuyan, alias BamBam, has talked about the traumatic experience she went through as a young girl.
The reality TV star revealed on Instagram how she was abused by her nanny who was meant to look after her between the ages of two to eight.
She recounted;
I was abused by a nanny as a child between the ages of 2-8.
She used my fist to masturbate and forced me to suck her breast while at it. It has affected me in different ways.
As if that wasn’t enough, some young boys abused and raped her too when she was a child.
In her words;
I have also been raped a few times as a young girl. I wasn’t ready to have sex with some of the guys I dated in the past, so they forced themselves on me.
During sex, some things trigger trauma I didn’t know wasn’t dealt with, I have gotten help, I still get help.
The mother of one child emphasized that all sexual activity must be consent-based and added that no adult, much less a child, should be coerced into having sex.
She maintained;
Look, sex must be consensual even in marriage! Sex must be consensual at all times! Don’t manipulate a mind into it! Not to talk of children?!!!
I stand against paedophilia, child trafficking, child molestation and abuse /sex indoctrination of any form.
She continued;
Hurt and mentally sick people hurt other people! That nanny was clearly abused or possessed and felt it was okay to do all she did to me!
We have sick people making laws to permit their sick orientations! Make it stop!!!