Vanguard Allure

Top Menu

  • Vanguard

Main Menu

  • Home
  • Allure Magazine
    • Features
    • Magazine
    • Profiles
  • Allure TV
  • Celebration
    • Fashion & Style
    • Weddings
    • Lifestyle
    • Events
  • Wellbeing
    • Allure Woman
    • Healthy Living
    • Beauty
  • Happiness
    • Food
    • Shopping
    • Travel
    • Relationships
    • Career
  • News
  • Vanguard

logo

Vanguard Allure

  • Home
  • Allure Magazine
    • What Eye See: Aduragbemi Okeyemi’s Journey Through the Art of Black-and-White Photography

      April 29, 2026
      0
    • MIKE ADENUGA… A QUIET COLOSSUS @ 73

      April 26, 2026
      0
    • Bovi and Nomzamo: AMVCA's new reveal

      April 19, 2026
      0
    • Bola Obileye on Purpose, Power and the Art of Fashion

      April 16, 2026
      0
    • Dr Bernardette Nwokoro shines at 100 Iconic Personalities of the year 2026

      April 13, 2026
      0
    • Favour Erere Eyeoyibo: Many hats one calling

      April 5, 2026
      0
    • Nollywood YouTubers redefining entertainment

      March 30, 2026
      0
    • MISKAY and Hilda Baci Launch Signature Collection in Lagos

      March 27, 2026
      0
    • Must a woman change her surname after marriage?

      March 13, 2026
      0
    • Features
    • Magazine
    • Profiles
  • Allure TV
  • Celebration
    • Fashion & Style
    • Weddings
    • Lifestyle
    • Events
  • Wellbeing
    • Allure Woman
    • Healthy Living
    • Beauty
  • Happiness
    • Food
    • Shopping
    • Travel
    • Relationships
    • Career
  • News
    • EDEN REBORN: ‘Glamgirl By Sefiya’, A Couture Fantasy Where Fashion Becomes Mythology

      June 3, 2026
      0
    • Seinde Signature Introduces Luxury Perfume Bar Experience in Ikoyi

      May 7, 2026
      0
    • Seinde Signature Hosts Sarah Baker in Landmark Multi-City Fragrance Premiere in Nigeria

      April 14, 2026
      0
    • Faith Morey Takes The Grace Circle Beyond Borders with Accra Edition

      April 11, 2026
      0
    • World Autism Day: Foundation calls for early intervention in Children

      April 7, 2026
      0
    • Belaire and Stars Shine at Yemi Alade’s Yem Beauty Launch

      April 5, 2026
      0
    • Faith Morey Introduces The Grace Circle to Lagos

      March 8, 2026
      0
    • Jobberman Pushes Inclusive Hiring at HR Fusion - Pink Edition

      February 25, 2026
      0
    • Application for Lifesaver Intervention Initiative leadership certification course opens

      February 23, 2026
      0
  • EDEN REBORN: ‘Glamgirl By Sefiya’, A Couture Fantasy Where Fashion Becomes Mythology

  • Foundation, OPAY supports 1,000 Osun students with back-to-school outreach

  • I’ve visited seven countries since last year— Olabanke Subair

  • Self-Advocacy: A Pivotal Tool Of Healing In Mental health

  • Stress and Smoke: The Quiet Addiction We’ve Mistaken for Relief

Allure MagazineNews
Home›Allure Magazine›Should someone forgive a spouse, who cheats repeatedly???-Actress, Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde speaks on infidelity

Should someone forgive a spouse, who cheats repeatedly???-Actress, Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde speaks on infidelity

July 26,2017
Share:
By Patricia Uyeh,
Nollywood diva, Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde, who has been married for 21 years, in a recent interview, spoke at length on the  major issues facing marriages today, which is infidelity.
According to her, a cheating spouse considered a first time offender should be forgiven especially if they are remorseful and show signs of change. But if a spouse continuously cheats, a lot of things have to be considered. However, it depends on the people involved in such relationships.

She said:

“When you say a cheating spouse, I guess that’s someone who’s a repeat offender. If someone cheats once, should they forgive that kind of person, I would say, definitely yes, if they are remorseful and if they show signs of change.

“Should someone forgive a repeatedly cheating spouse? Why are they cheating? I think the problem with us these days is we are very impatient. Yes, the sin is there and the sin is very bad but then, sometimes, you need to sit back and assess the situation: who is this person really: is that the only problem?Is this person perfect person and is just a cheat? You have to weigh your options.

“For me, as a person, is this something I want to deal with? Does it matter to me or am I angry because of what people will say?

“I have met a lady who says to me, “I don’t care what he does.” And someone else said, “You should care, he’ll give you a disease.”

“But do you know if she sleeps with her husband with protection? And she does not care about the emotional part. Maybe she’s just as cold as he is.

“And maybe, she is also cheating and feels like everybody can do whatever they like, as long as we’re together, we’ll respect each other.

“You don’t know peoples’ relationships so you can’t judge their relationship, only they can decide. If it is just about cheating and nothing else, one may be able to live with it but when the person is hopeless, that’s another matter”

Photo credit: Instagram @realomosexy

TagsAllure VanguardforgiveinfidelityOmotola Jalade-Ekeindespeaksspouse
Previous Article

Motherhood is a beautiful journey- Actress, Bukola ...

Next Article

33-year-old actress, Yvonne Orji opens up about ...

0
Shares
  • 0
  • +
  • 0
  • 0
  • 0
  • 0

Related articles More from author

  • Allure MagazineNews

    “I have been celibate since this year” – Singer, Orezi reveals

    December 11, 2017
    By allure1
  • Allure MagazineNews

    Nollywood veteran, Tope Oshin’s new documentary set to air on BBC

    October 24, 2017
    By allure1
  • Allure MagazineFeatures

    Toke Makinwa: The Media Buzz

    August 14, 2022
    By CHIOMA
  • Allure MagazineNews

    Fans attacks Nollywood actress, Mercy Aigbe-Gentry claiming she turned up for the #IStandWithNigeria protest late and only to show off

    February 7, 2017
    By allure1
  • Allure MagazineNews

    Marriage does not define happiness- Fashion entrepreneur, Toyin Lawani

    August 22, 2017
    By allure1
  • Beauty

    Reality TV star, Kim Kardashian announces break-out beauty line

    June 13, 2019
    By allure1
0

  • Allure MagazineNews

    “If you don’t like what they protray, change your channel” Seyi Law responds to pastor who cursed BBNaija organizers

  • News

    Seinde Signature Hosts Sarah Baker in Landmark Multi-City Fragrance Premiere in Nigeria

  • Laugh Out LiVE! with Basketmouth, Live music performances and more @ LiVE!
    EventNews

    Laugh Out LiVE! with Basketmouth, Live music performances and more @ LiVE!

  • 5312
    Followers
  • 0
    Likes

Timeline

  • June 3, 2026

    EDEN REBORN: ‘Glamgirl By Sefiya’, A Couture Fantasy Where Fashion Becomes Mythology

  • June 3, 2026

    Foundation, OPAY supports 1,000 Osun students with back-to-school outreach

  • June 1, 2026

    I’ve visited seven countries since last year— Olabanke Subair

  • May 31, 2026

    Self-Advocacy: A Pivotal Tool Of Healing In Mental health

  • May 31, 2026

    Stress and Smoke: The Quiet Addiction We’ve Mistaken for Relief

Categories

Subscribe to our Newsletter

Sign up to receive email updates and to hear what's going on with our magazine!

  • Recent

  • Popular

  • Comments

  • EDEN REBORN: ‘Glamgirl By Sefiya’, A Couture Fantasy Where Fashion Becomes Mythology

    By allure
    June 3, 2026
  • Foundation, OPAY supports 1,000 Osun students with back-to-school outreach

    By Temitope
    June 3, 2026
  • I’ve visited seven countries since last year— Olabanke Subair

    By CHIOMA
    June 1, 2026
  • Self-Advocacy: A Pivotal Tool Of Healing In Mental health

    By CHIOMA
    May 31, 2026
  • Chioma Jesus, Sammie Okposo, Midnight Crew set for #THUGGLA2018

    By CHIOMA
    April 24, 2018
  • American rapper, Kendrick Lamar wins Pulitzer prize for 2017 ‘Damn’ album

    By CHIOMA
    April 17, 2018
  • Afrobeat singer, Seun Kuti drops new album titled ‘Black Times’ 

    By CHIOMA
    April 23, 2018
  • Actor, Yul Edochie declares intention to run for presidency

    By CHIOMA
    April 23, 2018

Entertainment

  • January 3, 2026

    Olajide Ajose, Davido, Omoni Oboli Make Visibility 50 Africa List

  • November 21, 2025

    Evia Simon Unveils New Christmas-Themed Film Project

  • October 22, 2025

    Davido Becomes Osun State’s Chairman of Sports Trust Fund 

  • October 21, 2025

    Iyabo Ojo welcomes daughter, grandson back to Nigeria

  • October 5, 2025

    Imisi crowned winner of Big Brother Naija Season 10

Follow us