While media personality, Toke Makinwa  took to her Instagram page today, to share a post on her man crush- Russel Wilson, Ciara’s husband, she also took time to appreciate and advise single mothers.

In the lengthy post, Toke Makinwa wrote:

“Man like Russell
“My MCM today has to be this guy. If you’ve been following the whole Future Vs Ciara n Russell drama you’ll know why. See I love future, I’m a huge fan of his whole vibe. He makes good music too but what is wrong is wrong.

“The black community has enough single mothers raising kids all by themselves, the narrative of absentee fathers has been played for so long that I’m sure if you check now senior future is probably a product of single parenting too.

“While life happens and sometimes it’s no ones fault, if you see a man who accepts your kid and is raising him like his own, like truly loves your own blood and is present in his life, he deserves all the praise in the world. why will you disrespect him?

” Why comment on what you couldn’t bring to the table? Talking about Ciara must be controlling him, SMH. She leveled up and he is so mad . You had her, lost her, she found a real man and your salty ass is bitter. Future has had more kids with his baby mamas and recently said he’ll never marry anyone of them.

“Russell is that man that future simply isn’t. You cannot put a good woman down. Today I use this as a point of contact to every single mother raising kids on their own while the sperm donors are walking around, may you find your own Russell, and May your baby daddy live long enough to become a stepfather to his own child.

“May you find the strength to move on without any bitterness, it’s not easy but bitterness will kill you before your time. Let go and Let God. I pray you invest in your glow up and level up so bad that your shine will blind anyone working against you.

“Don’t get even, get better. To all the good men out there just trying to do right and live right, more muscle to your hustle, may the world sing your praise and celebrate you even more. #mondaymotivation#Inspired”