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You become who you have sex with – Tonto Dike

November 26,2019
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You become who you have sex with

Nigerian actress Tonto Charity Dike has said that you become who you have sex with.

She acclaimed that SOUL TIE IS REAL.

The mother of one is currently having a good time at Dubia and released this message via her Instagram handle.

She said, “Anytime you have sex with a person, you bond with them.”

She also stated that, people set themselves up for failure when they have casual sex.

SEX IS SO POWERFUL, AFTER ENGAGING IN IT, IT CAN MYSTERIOUSLY HAVE YOU LONGING FOR A PERSON YOU MAY NOT EVEN LIKE! THAT IS A SOUL TIE!

Tonto believes there is nothing like just sex for fun and no string attached.

Anytime you have sex, you are bonded to the person a little bit whether you like it or not.

It leaves you longing to become part of a person just because you’ve slept with them.

Women are more affected as they are more prone  to form an attachment to the person they have sex with.

What’s your take on this serious issue??

Ever felt attached to a stranger because you have sex with them?

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Anytime you have sex with a person you bond with them. SOUL TIES ARE REAL‼️If you’re having casual sex with a few partners or even just one and claim you’re doing it with no strings attached….you’re full of it and setting yourself up for failure! Two people may decide to have sex just for the fun of it, yet something is occurring on another level. Sex is enhancing an emotional bond between them whether they want it or not. One person, often the woman, is bound to form an attachment and will be hurt when a casual affair ends. Why do you think it’s so hard to let go of a partner who’s hurt, disrespected and maybe abused you? They’ve transferred negative energy into you and continue to pollute your beautiful soul with their toxic energy! SEX IS SO POWERFUL, AFTER ENGAGING IN IT, IT CAN MYSTERIOUSLY HAVE YOU LONGING FOR A PERSON YOU MAY NOT EVEN LIKE! THAT IS A SOUL TIE! Sis, does he like you? Does he know you, do you know him? How long until he stops calling if the sex stops? No matter how tough you are, a piece of him still lies in you, even when you’re through. You could be having soul ties and giving a piece of you to a demonic spirit! This isn’t a joke, this is real! You can’t let these liquored up, drugged up, chemically imbalanced, mentally unstable spirits lay with you! Stop giving away so many pieces of you to men who are already broken and could care less about building with you! You ask how do you know he’s broken? That’s what courting and getting to know him is for. Sis, you’ve got to work on you before God sends a man deserving and worthy of you! Your nights may get lonely but with God you are never alone. It’s ok to take a hiatus and give your mind, body and soul a break. Mend those pieces and get whole on your own. Only then you’ll attract the man who will value you, appreciate your beauty, and admire your amazing soul!”-Ms. Bling💎#YouBecomeWhoYouSleepWith #AnyoneWhoWantsYouCanNotHaveYou #DontLetThePainOfBrokenMen #DistractYouFromYourPurpose #IamMySistersKeeper 🙏🏽❤️#REPOST

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