Best practices to remain attractive to your spouse
Most times couples who have stayed together for a while tend to find each other less attractive, this article contains best practices to remain attractive to your spouse.
It’s been said that couples tend to love each other less after a while.
This is mostly true for couples who fail to reignite the flame intentionally.
There are certain ways to go around that and we’ve discussed it here
When it comes to couples finding themselves less attractive, this is as a result of what each of them do carelessly.
With intentionality this can be kept in check.
Below are 4 best practices to remain attractive to your spouse
Don’t Over Familiarize with him/her :Because you now stay together doesn’t mean you begin to over act or take each other for granted.
There are certain things we know our spouse detest, we obviously avoided this during courtship.
Don’t start doing those things because he or she is now your husband or wife now.
This little things might just be a turn off on their part.
They might not open up to you but gradually you are sending them away.
Remain You /Keep yourself intact : This usually falls on women who blow out of shape after childbirth.
Some even begin to dress anyhow in the name of being in their homes.
Truth is, these things make you less attractive to your husband.
Maybe because he wouldn’t want to hurt your feelings, he bottles it all up.
Men sometimes grows pot bellied and this can be a big turn off to your wife.
I know that we constantly evolve as humans and change is forever constant.
We all need to take conscious effort to retain that which attracted us to them in the first place.
Respect Them : When we show respect to each other, and value the thoughts of the other, it goes a long way in keeping you both attracted to one another.
When a man know his wife respects him, his egocentric nature is kept at bay.
The woman can make him do her bidding at any time.
When a woman feels respected, she will remain submissive in her marriage.
Respect is reciprocal, what you give definitely amount to what you’d receive.
Surprise Each Other : Surprises always gives this adrenaline rush no matter how little it seems.
Going out of our ways to surprise and show little gesture of love to our spouse leaves us ever green in their heart.
If you seriously want to retain that gaze and magnetic attraction you felt when the love sparked.
Keep the above in mind always and watch you fall in love over and over again.