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Choose your mental health and walk away always – Toke Makinwa talks on divorce

January 28,2020
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Popular Nigerian OAP and radio diva Toke Makinwa has urged her followers to always choose their mental health and walk away always.

Toke always believes and advocate for people to walk away from their marriages if it’s not working.

She insisted that;

“nobody is worth throwing the rest of your life in jail or even worse a death sentence for”. 

She emphasized that though they say divorce is not an option and not acceptable in our tradition, if you die or kill a person, they ‘said’ will only cry for you.

With a series of tweet, she said

“I know some conversations are tough but they must be had, nobody is worth throwing the rest of your life in jail or even worse, a death sentence, anger is evil, choose your mental health and walk away always.

It’s hard, it’s tough but one minute of anger can take away everything

They say divorce is not an option and it’s a sin, and it’s not our tradition but if you die or kill someone cos of anger, the same people that “said”will only cry with you as you throw your life away, try separation first and if things don’t get better, choose you

Life is tough, people are angry, there is frustration in the land.

The only sanity you can guarantee is yours.

If someone is threatening your peace pls separate from them, at least you can both be alive to raise your kids, and maybe one day find a resolve, stop testing yourself. “

Choose your mental health and walk away always

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