Sophia Momodu in a recent post advised young mothers, she said “do not project your personal trauma’s and fears onto your daughters.

Sophia is Davido’s first babymama and after receiving several questions from young mothers, decided to school them on things they ought to do.

She advised that they should never put their happiness in the hands of another human.

She also said no one is coming to save you except YOU.

Her post reads :

Not typically one for long captions however a lot of ladies have been writing me & I thought I’d share my thoughts on my 45min boat ride to the airport.

* Self love is a continuous journey.. make it a point to love yourself a little harder with each waking day.

* To my African sisters because the world is harder on us than anyone else, our cultures & traditions make us unique but never let it imprison you.. listen to your mother’s advice but bare in mind that your parents will be talking to you about a time that no longer exists.. & like a wise woman once told me you can’t heal new wounds with old medicine

* To young mothers try everything you can to not project your personal trauma’s & fears onto your daughters instead teach them early the things that you wish you had known earlier.

* Never put your happiness in the hands of another human being because human beings are fickle.

No one is gonna save you but YOU. Love & Light TSM