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Grieving process : what I feel is normal – Vanessa Bryant

February 11,2020
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Kobe Bryant’s wife Vanessa shares her grieving process with her followers, she says ‘what I feel is normal ;part of the grieving process.

Vanessa Bryant in an Instagram post said it’s hard for her mind to process the death of kobe and Gigi at the same time.

She said, even when she tries to process Kobe being gone, her body refuses to accept that her daughter will never come back to her.

She wished they were here and that the night mare will just go away.

She added that she just wanted to share in case there’s anyone out there that’s experienced a loss like this.

Vanessa urged her followers to continue praying for all.

Posting a video of her husband Kobe and Gigi, she said;

“I’ve been reluctant to put my feelings into words.

My brain refuses to accept that both Kobe and Gigi are gone.

I can’t process both at the same time. It’s like I’m trying to process Kobe being gone but my body refuses to accept my Gigi will never come back to me.

It feels wrong. 

Why should I be able to wake up another day when my baby girl isn’t being able to have that opportunity?! I’m so mad.

She had so much life to live. Then I realize I need to be strong and be here for my 3 daughters.

Mad I’m not with Kobe and Gigi but thankful I’m here with Natalia, Bianka and Capri. 

I know what I’m feeling is normal. It’s part of the grieving process.

I just wanted to share in case there’s anyone out there that’s experienced a loss like this.

God, I wish they were here and this nightmare would be over. 

Praying for all of the victims of this horrible tragedy.

Please continue to pray for all.”

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I’ve been reluctant to put my feelings into words. My brain refuses to accept that both Kobe and Gigi are gone. I can’t process both at the same time. It’s like I’m trying to process Kobe being gone but my body refuses to accept my Gigi will never come back to me. It feels wrong. Why should I be able to wake up another day when my baby girl isn’t being able to have that opportunity?! I’m so mad. She had so much life to live. Then I realize I need to be strong and be here for my 3 daughters. Mad I’m not with Kobe and Gigi but thankful I’m here with Natalia, Bianka and Capri. I know what I’m feeling is normal. It’s part of the grieving process. I just wanted to share in case there’s anyone out there that’s experienced a loss like this. God I wish they were here and this nightmare would be over. Praying for all of the victims of this horrible tragedy. Please continue to pray for all.

A post shared by Vanessa Bryant 🦋 (@vanessabryant) on Feb 10, 2020 at 11:14am PST

 

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