I read the story of a wife that plunged her heels into the scalp of her husband

He was rushed to the hospital, a case of infidelity hovers over

The other day it was a woman that stabbed her husband to death while he slept, she found out he was cheating

Another woman bathed her husband with boiling oil because he bought a phone for his side chic or so

The list is endless these days.

A lawyer in Abuja was alarmed at the number of divorces filed this year, over 4000

We are still in February

The average woman has finally lost her zest for marital Bliss.

She started losing her hair in the marriage from the day she said I do.

She started losing her sanity the day she walked up the aisle or got pregnant and was pushed or jumped into matrimony.

Now they are realizing matrimony isn’t as holy as they were taught.

All the education and tradition that was hammered into their heads from birth have now grown into a horn.

Indeed, hell has no fury than a woman scorned.

Before it was the side chic that suffered the sins of their husbands or boyfriends.

Now the tide has turned.

Women now see the real enemy and are taking him out.

Instead of walking away from a relationship or marriage that is no longer working, they resort to murder and murderous acts of rage.

This murderous rage has been a long time coming.

For long patriarchy ran rampage, unchecked.

A man could cheat on a woman and still slap her if she questions his infidelity.

Today, she doesn’t cry or beg God for change, she kills him.

The woman is no longer vulnerable and timid, she’s bloodthirsty.

But the smart woman knows when to call it quits.

The damaged ones can’t comprehend a life outside their man.

So they either die in the relationship or marriage, or kill the object of their pain.

Abuse and infidelity has turned our women into vigilantes.

But this is not a battle that violence can ever win.

The only way to win this war is not to fight it.

Dear sisters,

Until you purge yourself fully of abuse.

Until you cut off toxic and nasty relationships completely, you are part of the problem.

Until you realize walking away is in your best interest, you are not a victim.

This 2020, You are not a victim anymore with the level of information, knowledge and help out there, you are out of excuses.

You are a good definition of a bad example.

Stop whatever does not promote your self interest and self-development.

Stop whatever does not extend your life span.

Please just stop already.

We are tired of saving you, save yourself.

We are tired of talking about your abuse, shut us up by leaving that abusive relationship once and for all.

If you remain in an abusive marriage, you are responsible for your pain as much as he is.

If you stay with a man that turns you into a killer, you are not a victim, you are a partner in this crime.

Killing him doesn’t absolve you, killing him kills you.

But walking away, saves you.

You have a long Beautiful and exciting life to live.

The world is too big, just too big to die for one small person.

The world has changed as we know it but you have chosen to remain.

Refusing to transform you choose to stay deformed.

It is this same deformity that will send you to your untimely death, don’t blame the man.

You are as guilty as your abuser.

True repentance is walking away not praying for a miracle.

This is 2020, the miracle is walking away.

Any message that does not encourage you to leave is anti-you.

Enough is enough

The Authorpreneur