By Adesuwa Ewoigbokhan 

Being locked down does not mean you are locked out. If you happen to be quarantined with your spouse, perhaps you should breathe a sigh of relief that at least, you got to be locked down with someone you are in sexual relationship with. Now, you have all the time to tick off everything on your sex list as everyday now looks like a dirty day/weekend.

Actually, you can get a sex swing and start a lockdown sex blog by learning about the sex tricks, side chicks use in getting married men.

A number of women are losing their partners to side chicks/girlfriends; without knowing exactly what attracts the men to these strange women.

Hello wives! you need to know the sexual secrets of these faceless girlfriends. Painful as it may sound, a lot of these so-called side chics are a lot better in bed than many housewives.

For this reason, wives have got to step up their game, and beat side chicks in their dirty games.

The following are their secrets, take advantage of them and get your man back.

Side chicks understand that one of the weaknesses of most men is sex, and they gladly use it to their benefit. Wives pretend to be nonchalant about this, instead of using sex to create intimacy with their husbands, they end up using it to create animosity, anger, bitterness between them and their husbands. Be diligent, use sex as a tool of love to create intimacy in your marriage, never use sex to destroy your marriage, use it to build.

According to a report, most guys said that their wives hated kissing which made it difficult getting a decent kiss from their wives. Whereas, girlfriends on the other hand, are experts in this area; they kiss like mad and use kissing as a weapon to hook the men. Kissing is one of the most successful ways to express intimacy; it says ‘’l love you’’ in a very special way.

Wives- don’t turn kissing to wrestling in your marriage, stop being local and kiss your husband even when he is not expecting it.

A man once said he doesn’t like to see his wife in panties because according to him, she always looks like a wrestler. Most wives are like this; they are fond of wearing unattractive underwear and sometimes even wearing shirts meant for men. The extreme is going to bed with a wrapper tied around the chest for nightgown.

Side chicks can never be caught in this web; they are creative in this regard, very fond of wearing neat, sexy panties and bra. They also wear them in eye-catching colours.

Wives- wake up, be aware that fashion starts from under, not from head gear or designer bags. The real fashion is looking sexy when you get to undress before your husband. Get killer underwear to entice your spouse.

Side babes do not only wear sexy underwear, they also wear killer night gowns. Wives on the other hand, dress to bed looking like a soldier. Normally, you dress up when you are going out and dress down when going to bed. You also have to dress to capture the imagination of your husband, by getting a very sexy, night wear for your husband’s eyes only. Men are virtual, they are moved by what they see. Let your husband see the angel in you.

Married women see love making as a chore; a dirt one at that. Some even wish it is removed from matrimony. Side chics see intercourse as a serious business; they can go to any length to keep their clients and customers as they readily use all marketing strategies, from branding, packaging, to even advertisement.

Wives- begin to see love making as a serious business; rebrand yourself and repackage yourself because you are the real product not the side babes.

Majority of housewives are usually fond of asking their husbands “Is it food?” What a brainless question! It’s not just food, it’s more than that. Girlfriends are aware of the fact that men see sex as food; hence, they serve it hot and better.
Wives- get into the game and treat sex as food for your husband, make sure to serve it better than ever. Never again ask, “is it food?” it is more than that, a sexually satisfied man is an emotionally stable man.

Many housewives hardly think of sex, they are always occupied with thoughts of babies/children, house cleaning, cooking and washing. Intercourse is never part of them as they never think of it.

Side chics have sex in their thoughts most of the time and this helps them prepare their body. No wonder they hardly look tired for it.

Wives- Add sex to your list of things to do at least, two or three times a week. Have it in mind and see how your marriage will turn out to be. It will definitely be worth your while.

Truth be told, these side chicks actually plan for sex the way you plan for your cooking. They look forward to it and carry their clients along in their plans.

Wives- create sex menu and plan for sex in your marriage. Carry your husband along in planning for sex in your marriage, let it be part of your schedule and your man will appreciate you for it.
These strange ladies do set table for great sex with soft music; coloured light, candle light, perfumed bed, velvet bed sheet, sexy outlook and even slippery fingers. Are you still wondering why men keep going to them? Now you know the reason.

Wives- get deliberate in setting the table for copulation in your wedlock. Get creative, surprise your husband with sexy outlook when he arrives from work. With the children already in bed, look smashing, fill the whole house with romantic, soft music, dinner with candle light, hug him by the door and kiss him on the lips. Who says your husband will not rush home tomorrow?

Some women see romance as a strange thing and the side ladies don’t joke about it, they are experts in this field which is their area of specialization.

Many wives are romantically bankrupt while side babes are deliver like professionals. Men love romantic women and strange women know this and use it to their own advantage.

Wives- marital life is one long, love affair that never ends. So be romantic, don’t allow motherhood and wifehood to destroy your girlish instinct.

These side chicks are not only just romantic, they are born flirts. They give guys “come and do” eye contact.
When side chics sit at table with a men, they make sure their leg touch that of the men, they put hands on men’s shoulders as they chat. They always have a good smile when greeting the men and they laugh excessively to men’s dry jokes. Immoral men understand these signs and they quickly go in pursuit of them.
Wives- every woman is a born flirt and you are one.

Therefore, you should get flirty with your husband, hold his hands in public, place your head on his shoulder when possible, touch his legs as you talk, sit close to him and make sure your body touches his own. Hold him longer when hugging, he is your husband girl, there is no harm in flirting with him.

Side chics are not only romantic and flirty, they are seductive. They dress seductively, show cleavages, wear form-fitting clothes that show their pant lines and curves.

These temptations are what husbands face daily. Although he may not come home to share these challenges, you need to know this and get it right at home. Counter the side chic’s effort by seducing your husband on a regular basis; this may keep him to you to a large extent.

Wives- seduce your husbands; stop the pretence that you don’t love sex. Walk round the house half naked when you are alone with him, use the bathroom with door open when alone with him for sneak preview. Do whatever it takes to win your husband spirit, soul and body.
Girlfriends/Side chicks make great use of good and expensive perfume; they smell nice to attract men.

Wives- make sure to always smell nice, men’s sense of smell is very good; take advantage of this to capture your husband back to your side.

Strange ladies know very well how to make men feel wanted, honored and welcomed. They achieve this with their attitude; they cooperate with man in the bedroom by being involved in all that he does. Wives on the other hand, make their partner look foolish for asking for sex. Sometimes, the man resorts to force to have his way. This is one big mistake married women make that push their husbands to look for sex outside wedlock.

Wives- treat your husband with honor, let him feel wanted, accepted and loved. If he touches you, encourage him and touch him too. Also, feel free to initiate sex from time to time; most men love this about their women.

Another area of concern is how women deprive men of touching their boobs. Some wives feel their boobs are for the babies, they are fond of fighting their husbands for touching their breasts. Side chics don’t have this problem. They make good use of this to capture men. They know that most men can be captured by a woman’s breasts, so they dress to show cleavage. They wear clothes that reveal their nipples. They go for breast enhancement; they go out bra-less. Now you know that the women after your husbands are very desperate, you cannot afford to be careless.

Wives- make sure never to fight your husband again for touching your boobs; it is not for the baby, the baby is only a tenant, it’s for the man of the house. It is not for decoration, make use of it to keep your husband and be sure to package it well with a good bra. With this lockdown, you can even go braless.
Side babes are all rounder’s, they are experts in cooking great meal for men before sleeping with them. They know that men love food and if a man loves your food, he is likely going to like your body.

Wives- never commit your husband’s food to be cooked by your maids, as you may likely regret this later. Some women have lost their husbands to housemaids as a result. Be a great cook, if you don’t know how to cook, use this lockdown to learn.

Above all, learn to invest in effective and deliberate conversation; nothing works better than having a mutual agreement. Keep your communication lines open, active and be prayerful.