By Adesuwa Ewoigbokhan

 

With the children already in bed, look smashing, fill the whole house with romantic, soft music, dinner with candle light, hug him by the door and kiss him on the lips. Who says your husband will not rush home tomorrow?

 

Some women see romance as a strange thing and the side ladies don’t joke about it, they are experts in this field which is their area of specialization.

Many wives are romantically bankrupt while side babes are deliver like professionals. Men love romantic women and strange women know this and use it to their own advantage.

Wives- marital life is one long, love affair that never ends. So be romantic, don’t allow motherhood and wifehood to destroy your girlish instinct.

These side chicks are not only just romantic, they are born flirts. They give guys “come and do” eye contact.

When side chics sit at table with a men, they make sure their leg touch that of the men, they put hands on men’s shoulders as they chat.

They always have a good smile when greeting the men and they laugh excessively to men’s dry jokes. Immoral men understand these signs and they quickly go in pursuit of them.

Wives- every woman is a born flirt and you are one. Therefore, you should get flirty with your husband, hold his hands in public, place your head on his shoulder when possible, touch his legs as you talk, sit close to him and make sure your body touches his own. Hold him longer when hugging, he is your husband girl, there is no harm in flirting with him.

Side chics are not only romantic and flirty, they are seductive. They dress seductively, show cleavages, wear form-fitting clothes that show their pant lines and curves.

These temptations are what husbands face daily. Although he may not come home to share these challenges, you need to know this and get it right at home. Counter the side chic’s effort by seducing your husband on a regular basis; this may keep him to you to a large extent.

Wives- seduce your husbands; stop the pretence that you don’t love sex. Walk round the house half naked when you are alone with him, use the bathroom with door open when alone with him for sneak preview. Do whatever it takes to win your husband spirit, soul and body.

Girlfriends/Side chicks make great use of good and expensive perfume; they smell nice to attract men.

Wives- make sure to always smell nice, men’s sense of smell is very good; take advantage of this to capture your husband back to your side.

Strange ladies know very well how to make men feel wanted, honored and welcomed. They achieve this with their attitude; they cooperate with man in the bedroom by being involved in all that he does. Wives on the other hand, make their partner look foolish for asking for sex. Sometimes, the man resorts to force to have his way. This is one big mistake married women make that push their husbands to look for sex outside wedlock.

Wives- treat your husband with honor, let him feel wanted, accepted and loved. If he touches you, encourage him and touch him too. Also, feel free to initiate sex from time to time; most men love this about their women.

Another area of concern is how women deprive men of touching their boobs. Some wives feel their boobs are for the babies, they are fond of fighting their husbands for touching their breasts. Side chics don’t have this problem. They make good use of this to capture men. They know that most men can be captured by a woman’s breasts, so they dress to show cleavage. They wear clothes that reveal their nipples. They go for breast enhancement; they go out bra-less. Now you know that the women after your husbands are very desperate, you cannot afford to be careless.

Wives- make sure never to fight your husband again for touching your boobs; it is not for the baby, the baby is only a tenant, it’s for the man of the house. It is not for decoration, make use of it to keep your husband and be sure to package it well with a good bra. With this lockdown, you can even go braless.
Side babes are all rounder’s, they are experts in cooking great meal for men before sleeping with them. They know that men love food and if a man loves your food, he is likely going to like your body.

Wives- never commit your husband’s food to be cooked by your maids, as you may likely regret this later. Some women have lost their husbands to housemaids as a result. Be a great cook, if you don’t know how to cook, use this lockdown to learn.

Above all, learn to invest in effective and deliberate conversation; nothing works better than having a mutual agreement. Keep your communication lines open, active and be prayerful.