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Monday Motivation: Broken, mended and beautiful

August 17,2020
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Many things tears and breaks us apart but the beautiful thing is that overtime, the broken can be amended and still radiates beauty.

Could be that we were neglected as a child by our parents, our relations or even the people we nannied for.

Your boss in the office might have asked you out or molested you and you silently took it but deep down those actions are tearing you apart.

You fell in love with supposed Mr right and all of a sudden s/he left without a reason and you become shattered emotionally.

He asked you out and when you visited, he grabbed you and forcefully had a taste of you and while  thrusting he kept telling you, you can’t do anything about it.

You got married and for 10 years no issues yet and your in-laws are calling you barren and formulating several stories as to why you don’t have a child yet.

You lost daddy at a tender age and you were driven out with mummy who they called a witch for killing her husband and your uncles took away all your father toiled for you.

You are an A student and you are yet to get admitted after 5-8 years of leaving high school and your parents are disappointed in you.

You became pregnant after that rape or love affair and you decided to keep the baby and after delivery you are tagged a second hand material without hope of ever getting a good husband.

You got married to that beautiful lady you fell in love with and suddenly she packed her bags and left with another and you are broken in the heart.

You struggled to train yourself in school and after 7 years of graduating ,you’ve not being able to get a good job.

I really feel your pain, the list can elongate for a while, the truth is that people go through difficult things in life. Things that are dehumanizing and enough to make them loose happiness or even get depressed. Some who couldn’t handle the outcome commit suicide.

Have you been in any of these life threatening and moral lowering condition.

Do you feel that you are broken and for that you are without worth?

Whatever it is that happened is only but an event. You are still whole, give yourself the opportunity to be mended and transformed into something radiating and beautiful.

Just like that vase, you need to just deal with the situation that got you broken, find away around it and glue yourself back together.

You are a gold, you just went through the process of refining.

After refining golds sparkles. Stop beating yourself up and let the process refine you into someone all will admire.

The best clap back to anyone that brings you down is Success. Vengeance is a complete waste of precious time.

Enough of the pity party. It’s time to have the best party of your life for your banquet will be prepared in the presence of your enemies.

Instead of hating whoever subjected you to those attitude, thank them for taking you to the refinery where you will be refined into something magnificent.

The world awaits your clap back and success stories. You are gold so nothing can make you invaluable.

Get up amend yourself and radiate your true beauty.

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