Ex-Ultimate Love reality TV show guest, Dr. Cherry Osigwe, has advised against wishing to have what someone else has.

She noted that some people wish to have a man they see treating another lady nicely without knowing the pain behind her smile.

TO her, people should know that as faces are different, so is our destiny and pathways in life.

In an Instagram post, the 30-year-old narrated how some ladies were admiring her and her lover, who was helping her out with things, and the romantic gestures they made to each other.

according to her, one of the girls even went to follow him on Instagram.

Here is her post: “Hey lovers 🤗Lemme Gist and Advice U’all a bit…

“So, Yesterday I was on set with @officialmichaelngene and some ladies there was just admiring us (on how we spoke to each other, how he was helping me out with things, the romantic gestures etc..)…and of course they were “Awing!, and the popular God when? statement was flying around”🤣and even one of the girls had to follow him on ig…

“Now, these ladies and some of you online are admiring what we display outside but have no idea of the trauma or demons we fight indoor…

“Some ladies wish to have a man they see online or wherever treating another lady nicely without knowing the pain behind her smile.

“You can snatch that person without knowing that you’re just taking away a burden and cursing yourself thinking you are being smart🤣🤣

“You might even be with that guy but he will never treat you the same way because most successful relationships you admire is the woman that toil for it to work and if you can’t make the same sacrifices then you can never be her neither will you be happy las las 🤷‍♀️

“✍️I strongly Advice We stop living our life’s wishing to have what someone else has or wishing to be someone else or in their position because I believe as our faces are different so is our destiny and pathways in life…”