Men have been told that they may be one of the reasons why their wives no longer look as good as they did before marriage.

Pastor Laurie Idahosa made this known after she shared a photo showing a woman looking well cared for before marriage and slightly stressed as a wife. It also included a response given by a man explaining why this may be so.

The response reads: “Yeah because first is how her parents treat her and second one how you treat her.”

Laurie reacted, writing: “This response is everything! Too often, we blame the woman for the decline in her self image, poise, confidence, etc… Everything stems from somewhere. So, if your wife is a shadow of her former self, consider her stressors. You may be one of them.”