Orgasm is one of the most frequently discussed and favourite subject matter by lovers; rom sharing flirty sex tips on how to spice their sex life for better orgasms with a spouse, to generally gossiping about the latest sex toy that can come in handy during mating.

As a sexual active man, here are some tips you ought to know about orgasm.

Most ladies may or may not have orgasm during sex. The case is not the same with mes. Theirs is somehow, inevitable. Even though the internet these days always focus on ladies orgasms, but mens orgasms need their cut of attention too.
The man’s body is full of erogenous spots that can result in intense arousal and possibly a full orgasm when rightly touched- Ladies are known to have G-spot, A-spot and guys too are not left out as they also have three ultra sensitive spots that excite them the most; the frenulum (just underneath the head) perineum (patch of skin between the testicles and the anus). Lastly, is the prostate gland; it can be stimulated externally by massaging the perineum, or internally by inserting a finger or sex accessory into the anus (a finger, a tongue or a vibrating toy over the perineum can all work magic on the prostate). Its the most pleasurable of all the pleasure spots hence its often referred to as the male G-spot.

Ejaculation is not the same as orgasm- It can be an ejaculatory orgasm (ejaculation and orgasm) often happen simultaneously though they are really two different physiological acts that dont need to occur at the same time; if pleasure heightened and lead to dribbling of semen from the penis, thats an ejaculatory orgasm.

Theres the nipple orgasm- Nipples are full of nerve endings which are also connected to the brains genital sensory cortex and almost everyone can get pleasure from their nipples. So have your lady use their hands, lips and tongue to caress, flick, pinch, lick and suck the zone.

Mens orgasms usually last shorter than that of their female lovers. While male lovers can orgasm for as little as 5 seconds to as long as 22 seconds, the ladies orgasm can last on average of 20 seconds.

Here’s how a man experiences orgasms- Muscles become tensed in hands, thighs and buttocks. With sex flush appearing on various spots like chest, shoulders, stomach and neck. Experiences a collection of fluid in his urethral bulb called ejaculatory inevitability, the expulsion is semen.

Orgasms on the other hand include the pelvic contraction, grasping muscular reflex that occurs in your hands and feet. Muscle tension as well as blood vessel engorgement is heightened at this point; muscular contraction, increased heart rate and blood pressure, and typically result in intense pleasure (orgasm).

Men also fake orgasms just like women. About 30 percent of guys are estimated to have faked orgasms at one point or another. This doesnt mean that they did not enjoy the sexual activity even when there was no orgasm.

A number of men actually need to rest/recharge after orgasm and ejaculation. This is because some of them cannot indulge in another orgasm within the shortest time even with continued stimulation. Further stimulation may feel painful or too sensitive.

It’s very possible for guys to achieve orgasm without ejaculating. This is because not all men ejaculate with orgasm. This is because, most of them can have orgasm without releasing any form of fluid (dry orgasm), and the sex will still feel great for him.

Orgasm is not the same for everybody since what makes one person climax may not work for another. See a sex coach/therapist if worried about not having orgasms.