The 25th of December- Christmas Day sex can be easier to squeeze in than you give it credit for. Also it’s one of the best times of the year for intimacy and closeness; particularly in the other room “Mistletoe and mulled wine can definitely put you in the mood for love, but it can be tricky to find the right time for a spot of festive fun between the sheets.”
Here are tips to ensure you enjoy some sexy time without feeling worn out.
Sex As Breakfast– If you are in for a hectic day ahead, full with guests and a lot of food, you can decide to start the day with a very merry roll around the sack. Perfect time to indulge in a quickie on Xmas day as it will help to melt away all that stress, leaving you feeling very satisfied for the rest of the day.
Sex Outside The Bedroom- Be intimate is not exclusive to the bedroom alone and it really doesn’t have to be about sex either. So maintaining intimacy in your relationship over the festive season can just be about smaller gestures like kissing, holding hands or cuddling can show your spouse how you feel about him/her while providing feelings of love and reassurance in what would have been a very stressful time. And if feeling a bit horny but too tired to engage in sexual activity you can excite one another with dirty, foreplay talk, or even mutual masturbation.
Break Out Of Your Usual Routine-
There are no rules about having sex on Christmas day, the same way there are also no rules about sex happening at night and in bed only. If you enjoy the sensuality of a steamy hot shower then you can try getting it on in there together before bed. Spice up the location, somewhere you hardly used, so it feels new and exciting especially if there are no guests staying for the festive season. The staircase comes very handy or you could do it underneath the Christmas tree to make your private time extra festive.
Use The Festive Food as a Sex Tool- Xmas season is everybody’s favorite foodie holiday, which makes it a perfect time to bring some tasty treats into the bedroom with fruit like strawberries/sweets/honey/chocolate try licking off your spouse’s body (you’re sure to work up an appetite).
Candy Cane Lube- A must for any season of the year especially if you’re keen on getting laid on Xmas day because ‘the wetter, the better.’ Peppermint is a traditional yuletide scent and flavour: thanks to the tingling sensation that the menthol in it provides (a great way to stimulate your mind and body). Get the best of both worlds by using a lube that has a candy cane taste.
Sex With Eyes Closed- If by chance you were not able to copulate before the Xmas day is through, engaging in it before bedtime is still a great time to get into the act. Although this may not be your most energetic round, it will make for a relaxed and restful night of sleep; quiet, private, and cozy.
Kindly note that, it’s not a must you have sex on Christmas day even though it might feel necessary, in fact you should never ever feel pressured if you don’t want it just because it’s Xmas day. This is one of the biggest sex myths that couples usually fall for because it’s on a special day.
Overall, sexmas seems to be particularly a passionate time of the year, with the majority of spouses admitting to feeling friskier during the festive holiday compared to any other time of the year!