Allure Sexmatics: Response To Marital Issues
Does size really matter for a man?
Are you embarrassed every time you stand naked before your woman? Do you feel less endowed and unable to satisfy your woman sexually? If your answer is YES, then stop that thought, as the following tips can help you.
Yes, size does matter but there is hope; all you need do is to educate on the kind of sex positions to adopt. It is important to point out that regardless of size there is more to intercourse than the styles you indulge in. Though sex positions can enhance it but if you’re missing some fundamentals, you could have a huge P and thrust all day and still not bring your partner to orgasm.
Do not forget about fore play: make sure to provide your partner with the right kind of stimulation – clitoral stimulation. The sex positions below can be of help;
The Grip position: This creates feelings of intense pressure on your manhood which makes you feel, you are filling her vagina completely. It is a good style because it provides powerful clitoral stimulation due to the way her labia bunches up as she squeezes her thighs.
Leg Sideways: In this position, you get the best from your size as the penetration is deep and the vagina is squeezed, which will provide more friction and a feeling of fullness for your mate.
G- Spot Bliss: This position targets the first few inches of the vagina which is packed with nerve endings, particularly if the focus is on the sensitive G-Spot on the upper wall of the vagina. This can be pleasurable for her when stimulated.
Puppy love/ Doggy style: This style gives you easy access to her clitoris and is actually very good for men that are less endowed because when performed at the right angle, the penis feels bigger. With this style, smaller member can really be an advantage as you can thrust without worrying about hitting the cervix which can be painful for her.
FOR A DEEPER PENETRATION – You can adopt the following sex positions:
Man in a sitting position with the woman sitting on top, this helps to contract the cervix of the mate thereby making it easy for the small size P to hit the cervix for good orgasm.
The guy on top of the lady also knows about the Advance Missionary Style. This position will ensure pressure is place on her vaginal wall so as to benefit the small P.
The simple fact is that a P of any size can bring any woman to orgasm, indulge in more fingering, oral sex, make use of sex toys if need be and do spend quality time on foreplay. The above positions are simply designed to make love making more enjoyable for both partners.
If you must know, most women feel more fulfilled sexually with oral sex than the actual intercourse. So become an expert on cunnilingus and the size of your manhood will pale into insignificance.
What can be done to boost Low sex drive/ Libido?
This is not a lost cause. Taking a few deliberate steps can help to reconnect with your sexuality.
Start by changing the conversation by sending flirty text messages, this builds anticipation for the real ACT.
Wear what makes you sensual and indulge in twenty seconds hugs, an average hug last for about three seconds. A study has shown that hugging for twenty seconds increases one’s level of bonding hormone called Oxytocin. It triggers a feeling of deep attachment which often leads to deep passion and can lead to sexual desires in women.
Majority of guys have high sex drive but one out of five have low libido and this could be as a result of the following:
Psychological issues such as stress and anxiety from the strain of daily life, relationship or family problems, depression and mental disorder are among the many factors that can affect sexual desire
Medical problem; diseases such as diabetes, conditions such as obesity, high blood pressure, high cholesterol and some other medications can negatively affect libido.
The way you feel about your body affects the way you feel about sex. An unhealthy diet and lack of exercise may cause you to have a poor self image and this can discourage you from having and enjoying sex especially if they have gotten out of shape.
You can boost your self esteem and sex drive by shifting the focus from your flaws to your attributes and also focus on the pleasure experienced during sex.
Taking two glasses of wine may be too much. Drinking one glass can put you at ease and increase your interest in becoming intimate. Too much of it can affect your performance and orgasm.
Take time to meditate, build up your self confidence and outlook on life, pamper you self, develop new hobby, relieve stress by getting enough sleep, exercise regularly, eat healthy food rich in protein and low in carbohydrate, eliminate alcohol and smoking.
Spend more time on foreplay, flirt with each other at the slightest opportunity, give suggestive smiles, a well- timed compliment about your spouse’ appearance, this kind of playfulness is a very influential part of boosting passion. Indulge in regular quickies and kissing as they help to heighten sexual desires.
Have sex in different locations, go for a weekend getaway, at least this can add a spark, be expressive, explore and experiment until you know what turns you on. Communicate your preference, have an open discussion and be specific with your spouse, don’t be shy.
Show your spouse more tender loving care, affection and attention.
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