Finding it hard to get your spouse’s attention? Sometimes all you need is simply a push. Boosting his or her ego, so that he/she will believe you desire him/her, physically as well as emotionally. Other times, your partner needs just a little extra effort on your part to be enticed and drawn towards you.

Attraction is an integral ingredient of matrimony.

Marriages tend to last longer and more enjoyable when couples are attracted to each other.

This singular act, accounts for partner’s feeling good about themselves, and therefore, ready to please the love of their lives.

Sexual attraction can dwindle. This happens in every marriage.

It can be caused by stress, busy schedules or your in-laws are in town for the weekend, putting one or of both of you in a poor frame of mind, that eventually becomes a roadblock to your overall arousal levels.

Being married for quite a number of years could take its toll on couples, physically, emotionally, and can equally influence the issue of being attracted to, and by, our partner
Couples naturally face the likelihood of aging, getting wrinkles and comparing themselves to younger and more attractive individuals.

All hopes are not lost as there are several ideas for preserving and nurturing attraction to one’s partner on a long term.
The very first act of keeping your spouse attracted to you is Sex!

This is one of the most significant tools that keep most couples from breaking up. It is one of the proven ways to express love and affection in relationships.

Love is a powerful attraction. Developing and cultivating love for our spouse is likely to boost our attraction for them.

Be expressive with your love every single day Go out of your way to do something extra sweet for your mate.

The more love we feel, the more attractive they become. The more we are bonded and connected to our partner, the more likely we will be attracted to them.

Go on a date for two in one of your favourite restaurant or hangouts, indulge in quality time together and get to the next level of initiating sex.

Initiate sex, you don’t have to wait for your spouse to always make the first move.

Let him/her know that you are waiting for those private moments when you can seduce and smooch. You will definitely love what happens next.

Get committed in the act of loving, recognize those positive attributes in your spouse, acknowledge and appreciate them for possessing those traits.

Take interest in your spouse interest, be it movies, sports, music, dance or cars. Show interest in what he /she likes and your effort will be well appreciated, and this will boost intimacy.
Grow and explore a deeper attachment with your man/woman, as human beings are an embodiment of many layers and complexities.

Having to relate can be a kind of unimaginable experience, seeking to uncover hidden qualities and making stirring discoveries that will help you feel more alluring to your partner.

Don’t be passive, instead be active. You don’t have to wait for enticement to land on you.

Cherish and enjoy each other’s company, look for new activities to do together.

Be creative and cultivate a friendship with each other.

Stop comparing your relationship with others, having a fantasy for another can be something entirely different which could be hurtful.

Be health conscious, follow a regular fitness regime, do this to keep fit and in shape.

Exercise will help to strengthen your immune system and improve your stamina.

This will put you in the right frame of mind and make your partner to be attentive and charming towards you.

Learn to dress appropriately at any point in time.

Know your spouse’s preference, know your spouse favourite colour, style and display that gorgeous side of you.

Observe simple, basic hygiene; comb your hair, smell nice with good perfume, wear clothes that fit, trim the hair on your armpit, go for manicure and pedicure. This will produce a positive result.

Be updated with happenings around you, as spouses prefer to have partner that is knowledgeable, can hold discussion and have view points on different topics.

This will keep both of them engaged in a healthy conversation. For a beginner, read newspapers and magazines.

Be mischievous by surprising your spouse with sexy naughty encounter at any given chance.

It can be in the bathroom, sitting room, kitchen even when he or she is engrossed in phone calls. Arouse your partner with your acts as this will leave room to ask for more.

There is a saying that ‘’the way to a man’s heart is through the stomach’’. For the purpose of this write up, it will be applicable to both the man and his woman.

Cooking is seen as an admirable quality, make your partner’s favourite meal. You don’t have to be a professional cook to do this.

Going out of your way to cook a special meal is what really matters, especially as this is an awesome way of rekindling your bond.

Form a spiritual bond with each other as prayer is a very strong and powerful tool used in enhancing attraction to one’s companion.

Share common goals, missions, purposes and dream. Get into something larger than a common passion, as this is likely to connect your hearts together.
In conclusion, marriages are made in heaven.

Nevertheless, you have to put in additional effort here on planet earth to keep it sailing.

In this January, join hearts and be determined to start and finish as a united team.