Mating between man and woman is not always about penetration, genitals or orgasm as good copulation is about pleasure and fun. To achieve this, you need to put in some work and learn some new stuff to help improve what’s obtainable in the bedroom.

This brings us to female sex strategies; how to be the best lover ever, making him crave for you sexually, and helping you to achieve more intense orgasms.

Women are often seen as  the complicated ones when it comes to making love. Guys can be complex, but they might never admit it.  

Let’s look at some incredible sex strategies for spicing up “the other room.”

Bedroom confidence can be a massive turn on for your spouse even when you struggle with your look or abilities. It is best to lower your inhibitions and try to be confident.

Self care – Take good care of yourself by pampering your body and exercise to keep fit. Spend quality time with yourself, take care of your own personal needs. There is nothing wrong in having a solo time once in awhile because the more you know your body, the easier it is for you to share with your man about your sexual desires and needs. Try not to be scared in trying new things, diversity can actually help to spice up bedroom matters.

Being open about exploring new stuff is a major sex tip for ladies. So, take the lead and show your guy that you’re willing to try something different from the usual, in order to make things more interesting and exciting like, sex games, role playing, little dirty talk, new sex styles and even ordering a new sex toy to use on him or for him to use on you. This can open up a new realm of possibilities in the world of sex.

Be in the moment – Some ladies often find it difficult staying put on the Act; thinking about an endless list of things to do, getting stressed about a project that needs to be finished. This action can take you out of the moment thereby reducing your attention on the sensual feelings your lover is trying to give. It’s really important you  practice mindfulness during love making, the same way you do in other spheres of your life. Pull your mind back and stay focused during copulation.

Power of Touch – Move away from touching the genitals, learn about men’s erogenous zones and use the knowledge in “the other room.” Surprisingly, most men love to be touched sensuously; teasingly rub your hands along his thighs, cup his face, stroke his cheeks, comb your fingers through his hair, caress his shoulders and back, as you press your own body against his. These activities help to heighten your man’s senses during foreplay. Focusing on the genitals can’t be over emphasized but touching other erogenous spots builds anticipation that nurtures sensual connection in mating.

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