How to enjoy the woman-on-top position
Men’s special favourite of all time is the woman on top sex style; they love it just like the women do since it gives them free spectacular view from below, and they also dont have to do the physical labour.
The woman-on-top position helps to show one aspect of ladies owning their sexuality by climbing on top of her man and riding him to her heart’s content.
Aside this, this sex position is actually a powerful tool for her because, she controls the speed and depth and provide access to the clitoris for additional stimulation.
Quite a good number of men crave a lady to be on top- When you take charge, they know youre turned on and into it, says certified sex therapist Ava Cadell, PhD, EdD. They also get a great view of your breasts and other sexy parts. Andlets be honest they dont have to do as much work when youre riding them.
The simple truth is that, women are not complaining since its the most orgasm-inducing position for ladies. According to certified sex educator, Amy Levine, Founder of SexEdSolutions.com, you can set the pace thatll get you off, and the angle is ideal for stimulating the two biggies: your G-spot and clitoris.
Here’s how It works and one reason, why the mattress moves so freaking amazing:
Running the show- You climbing on top means he doesnt have to worry about whether you are achieving an orgasm since you are taking control of your own sexual pleasure. This makes your spouse cruise along and enjoy himself in the process.
Being on top also help to show how much youre craving him, which is an insane turn-on. Guys are usually the ones in charge during sex, so the change of pace when you take over is incredibly arousing, says Debby Herbenick, PhD, author of Because It Feels Good. It makes him feel like you cant get enough. Spice it up, call the shots by telling him to close his eyes or blindfold him just before he penetrate, or pin his hands above his head as you grind into him.
Dominating him gives you a hot power trip and you can also experiment with the tempo and angle that bring you the most pleasure by switching up the rhythm from hard and fast, to a slow groove. Shift your body by leaning slightly back or to one side, then bend all the way forward so your chest is pressed against his and in the process, stimulates all different areas of your V-zone.
On top position gives an amazing view- He is either checking out your bouncing boobs in forward-facing cowgirl, or your butt and back in reverse angle. Lady on-top actually gives your spouse an eyeful. Men are more visually oriented than women are, According to the certified sex educator, Amy Levine, Founder of SexEdSolutions.com, seeing a sexy image is key to their arousal. Plus, its the only position where he really gets to witness you in action. So, move in a way that enhances your curves and will get him beyond frisky. Arch your back so your breasts thrust forward; in reverse, lean over a little and grab his toes, pushing your butt out.
The more confident you feel being on top, the better sex will be says certified sex therapist, Ava Cadell PhD, EdD says. With your lover staring slack-jawed at your body, its hard not to think youre hot as hell. Hence every kiss, caress, and squeeze becomes really extra mind-blowing. Be sure not to just sit there and look pretty; explore the erotic gains by putting on a mini show mid-action every now and then.
Make sure to wear a front-closure bra and when it gets heated and intense, gently unhook the bra so that he can see your boobs spill out slowly, and seductively suck on one of your fingers and then let it trail from your lips, toss your hair over your shoulder and squeeze your boobs together for a preview. Alternatively, circle your nipples with your fingertips, he is bound to go crazy with desire just watching you touch yourself, trailing along your torso down to your V-zone.
Experiment with sexual naughtiness by showing off your exhibitionist side. Put a large mirror against the wall near the bed so that both of you can watch yourselves going at it, Levine suggests. Not only will you see your bodies from a hot new angle, like youre viewing yourselves in a Netflix movie.
*Its really tricky for your man to press some of your hot button but with woman-on-top, it grants him easy access to stroke all the erotic spots especially as both of you have to use your hands to support yourselves, and free to roam everywhere. Touching each other during sex; kissing, licking, stroking builds on the main sensation thats coming from your genitals and adds another layer of pleasure, says Cadell. Also, you can lick and gently nibble his nipples, kiss or run your tongue down his neck, lightly scratch your nails along his chest/abs or squeeze his inner thighs.
This is a perfect position for showing him how you want to be touched, by subtly directing him on what you want sexually. Another way to do it is to mirror one anothers movements; like, running your fingers through his hair while he runs his through yours. Try this with the forward-facing cowgirl.
For balancing- Him lying on his back or sitting down, the pressure of your body on top makes him effortlessly slide in deeper, not only does it feel incredible for both of you, it also gives him an ego boost as well. Guys like to go deep because it makes them feel bigger, powerful and more macho, Cadell explains. So amp up the pleasure, by building anticipation for that insanely hot moment when he engages you for the first time. Men can last longer with this style- Left to them, they will just pump fast because its the easiest and quickest way for them to get off.
Like the saying goes, good things come to those who wait- in terms of this position, it results in very intense orgasm which also gives you the opportunity to get up to the speed. Being on top helps you to control his thrusts, mix in slower movements that helps extend the pleasure.
Ladies love to grind, while men are stimulated when stroking in and out. Sticking to your favourite motion as a girl- on- top, he is more able to hold on longer which makes it a win-win for everyone.
There is something to be said about a lady who loves her body and feels confident in it. It is a known fact that some women feel exposed when their nakedness is on display. They also feel uncomfortable with their boobs bouncing, showing their belly in an unfavourable light, but a visual delight for most guys.
Theres really no reason not to get on top when next you’re ruffling the bedsheet, and you may not want to indulge in any other positions again not when this style makes you feel powerful as a Tigress!