How lack of cash has affected good sex
Money and sex are related to each other, and despite the fact that the two play an important role in our day to day lives, and directly affect one’s sexual activity, people see them as . taboo subject matter of discussion.
Not in too many words, cash and lovemaking are inextricably connected both in marriages/situationships as they are key contributors to our well being and state of mind.
Unless people really think about it, they might not know how much the issue of finance is affecting their sex lives most especially, couples who actually don’t think that their cash flow has much to do with their orgasms.
On the other hand, if money is causing you stress, controlling your social life or causing tension in your relationships, then it’s time to consider how it can affect your sex life too.
Lack of cash can cause sex drive-crushing fights as nothing kills sex mood faster than a huge spat ( research has it that, money is the most common source of fighting among spouses).
So, try to have these awkward conversations about money outside the bedroom in order not to ruin the moment.
Not having enough cash can put a toll on your sexual desire- Everyday annoyances can affect your sex. Daily stressors like money can cause your mind to wander away during intercourse; making you less active and physically uncomfortable.
Sex is a physical activity and if your physical health is lacking strength, copulating becomes difficult as you’ll be too worn down and exhausted, to even toy with the idea of making love. Whereas, on the other hand, if you are financially stable, your physical health is likely to be top notch. The more cash you have, the more likely you are able to afford things that maintain your physical health like, nutritional foods or gym, any necessary medications and whatever it is you want to try in bed. With more cash, you’ll having more sex than those without money.
As you know, malnutrition is a huge issue for people without enough money. Poverty and poor health are undeniably linked; the more vulnerable you are, the more susceptible you are to illness and injury which lowers your libido and limits your stamina.
Physical symptoms of lack of cash coupled with self esteem can put up tough barriers between you and your ability to have sex. So, the better your mental health, the more likely you might be willing to indulge in a healthy, sexually active life.
Financial stress can affect the quality of your social life- As you’re aware, dating and socializing in general cost money. So, it’s really important that couples go on dates/getaways once-in-a-while to spice their sexual lives. And, if you don’t have enough money to go on date, there’s the tendency that your intimate life will be bound to face challenges like being able to buy fun sex stuff like sex toys, lube etc.
Note that the use of sex toys is said to increase communication, excitement, and enjoyment in bed. Having cash to spend on them is a great way to improve one’s intimacy and passion. “Money=better quality of life and better quality of life=better sex life.”
On a final note, low sex plus stress are intricately linked. When one is feeling the burdening impacts of lack of money, you will also be suffering in the bedroom, little at a time, building up without you noticing until less sex takes a toll on the relationship.