INITIATING SEX AS A WOMAN (Pt2)
Continue from last week
A very nice dinner can turn up your romantic side and stylishly make a spectacle out of initiating love making.
Pull out all the stops and cook a delicious meal. And, in case you really want to increase your odds of getting laid, then be sure to feed him aphrodisiacs.
- Complimenting your spouse is a powerful way to initiate sex and its easier to compliment your significant other on something you love about them and how it makes you feel. Share your arousal/desire/interest at that moment and how turned on you are about how he makes you feel.
*Jump into the shower with him, this is another sneaky way to initiate intercourse. Pretend that youre there to take a bath or help him wash up. Take the soap and rub your hands along his naked body. This will get his mind moving in a sexual direction.
- Try using your hands (best sex toys) in all the right places can turn your partner on: give a back massage with the right amount of pressure, gently scratch his back, run your hand through the hair and trace your guy lips with your fingers. All of these soft, slow touches can get him turned on.
- Its cool to send a naughty text from the bedroom. This is not just a light-hearted way to initiate sex, it can also be a very straight forward and fun way. For instance, you can send a sexy picture of you lying on the bed from the bedroom with a short message like, baby, Im waiting for you!
- Flaunt your body in every way possible while lying close to your lover on the couch watching a movie. Stylishly use your body to get him turned on by rubbing your pelvis against him, massage his back and manhood. Use every inch of his entire human body youre touching to get him in the mood. If in bed already and your guy walks into the room, give him that look of I want you when he looks at you, he will put two and two together and hit the bed really fast.
- Give him a sexual surprise by gently waking him up with a handjob from sleep in the middle of the night, or early morning by going down on him.
- Dont put pressure on yourself or spouse, try not to have unrealistic expectations when it comes to intercourse since there may be times when either of you might not be game. This is where understanding and being compassionate with one another comes in handy.
Respect each others space and dont take it personally if your mate is not in the mood, knowing that there are non penetrative sexual activity you can engage in when sex is not forth coming.
Never feel ashamed or embarrassed when initiating sex because somebody has to do it; so why not be that person since you have sexual needs that you want fulfilled.
Initiating sex can be fun and enjoyable, from foreplay and teasing to the exploration of physical touch and sensations in each moment, can be that special and memorable for days and weeks to come.
So, ladies, lets initiate sexual congress, this can be rejuvenating in marriage. It can jump-start excitement and pleasurable experiences to share with ones spouse.