By Patricia Uyeh

As Tiwa Savage puts it, ” I no do kele kele love”; that is love relationship that devoid of commitment and marriage in view. Some men can be time wasters- you know now, the “hit and run” guys. They are the ones who are terribly unserious when it comes to being in a relationship with you. Below are tips to identify the unserious guys:

1. Has he met with your family or introduced you to his ?
Unserious guys run away from meeting your family as he doesn’t want anything formal. Likewise, he would not introduce you to his family so as not to be identified with you. Such guys like secretive relationships without commitment.

2. Does he refrain from taking pictures with you?
If yes, then it is clear indication that he doesn’t want photographic evidence that you are a couple dating.
Also suggest baby names. Playfully ask him to suggest your baby names and watch his reaction. Chances are that if you continue to talk baby stuff with him, he would feel uneasy picking your calls.

3. Say I love you to him and let him”talk his own”: These words can make a player run faster than Usain Bolt. If he isn’t ready to commit or have no plans for the future with you, he would find a cunning way to respond, stammer or even avoid your eyes.

4. Tell him to meet with your pastor: Depending on your religion, tell him your Cleric/ Imam/Pastor/Father-in-the-Lord, wants to meet with him. If the guy is a player, he would sense that his time is up particularly, if you tell him that your cleric is very spiritual and knows how to foresee the future!